Permission to be sad and needy please?

Oh hunnuy, please don't listen to this very STUPID person, there actions says a whole lot more about them then it does about you. I know it's really hard when it evokes past memories, but you need to focus on now, you are getting married soon and you will look absolutely stunning as i am sure you always do. You have a man that loves you very much and will have a great, long and happy future to gether.

I am so sorry that you had to deal with these idiots, try not to dwell on it, dust yourself off, go do something just for you, put on your favorite outfit and rock it.

Big hugs x

What a horrible couple. They clearly like to cause a reaction, so try not to let them.

Maybe they were trying to provoke your OH into getting into a fight?

I got called a tramp a few years back when we had all got dressed up prettily on a monday afternoon to celebrate a friends bday - my dress want short/low cut or anything, but it really hurt me - they hadnt said it to anyone else. I went home early in tears. But then someone reminded me that their opinions dont count to me. I would never see them again and their lives must be so shallow if they have to judge people they dont know to make themselves feel better.

What I did learn though was that I never wanted to be one of those people, so even when I see ladies in white trousers and black undies, I keep my thoughts to myself!!

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if you were an ugly b!tch would you have a happy OH and a wedding to look forward to?

Thanks girls, that's really sweet of you all. Like you said I do sort of know it's them with the problem, I feel a bit better about it today, hopefully I will more tomorrow - and if nothing else my make-up girl's fab so hopefully she can create magic!

If this is the first immature peice of scum to have ever done that. you are lucky. Lots of boys/youths like to do it - usually in front of girlfriends or their mates. They think it makes them look cool and grown up, when really nothing could be further from the truth. He was probably also either drunk or drugged up!

I have seen your FB picture and you weren't either fat or ugly in that!! Nobody will be dissapointed in how you look on your wedding day. Just by being the bride you will look beautiful!

Thanks - you're right, of course it was after the england game so he was prob drunk. I guess it's sort of something I don't really associate an adult - the guy was mid-late 20s - doing. Bah, am I wrong for hoping the next person he does it to decks him?

Gosh thats really nasty! I hope your ok!

I know how you feel, when i was in High School i was a bit over weight, suffered very badly with spots, got bullied so badly, that badly i wouldnt go to school, it made me really ill!

You'll look gorgeous on your wedding day, and dont think any differently!

x

You poor, poor love. Don't let this vile little twit make you feel ugly. You are BOOTIFUL. He is a scumbag and probably has a maggot for a winky.

I have always had comments about my weight from people when I've been out and it's so hurtful. Like the other posters have said - you just have to remember you are getting married to the man you love soon - all your family will be so proud and see how gorgeous you are. These people who don't know you don't matter.

Karma will bite that vile eejit on the arse - you mark my words! x x

Thanks girls. x

What an awful thing to happen, I can't believe someone could be so vile for no reason. I can totally understand why it has made you feel how you do, I would feel the same, Your OH clearly thinks you are beautiful and thats what I would take comfort from right now, you are probably never going to see that tw*t again, so he can take a running jump!

Big hugs x

Ugh!! that evil little creature! vile horrible, nasty vicious little genital wart how DARE he!!!!!! you are NOT fat and you are most certainly NOT ugly - you are a happy, loved up, successful, fabulous, fun girl and you shouldnt let him or anyone else tell you differently!!! i hope a seagull does a massive *** down his face for his cheek. its time these idiot creatures learned some goddam manners! big hugs lovely - you are going to look amazing on your day and that comes from INSIDE, no amount of make up can quite beat the radiance of a lady in luuuurve ❤️

Thanks girls. I think I'm finally over it now!