please help

What doubts are you having? If they are small and can be worked out its fine but if they are serious, big doubts then you have to think about it.

S x

I need more info before I comment on this.

Why are you having doubts?

I'm new to all this ,but I suspect he may eat spam sandwiches in bed???

I'm trying to give them the benefit of the doubt before I pass judgement on this.

Not necessarily... Hitched is very googleable and they may just want to protect their identity.

I am afraid cannot offer much advice with so little information... is there anything specific worrying you?

Lol, I'm not in a generous mood today :-)

Sorry you feel that way but no one can really help given that little information.

Could you describe to us how you feel please, so we can tell if its nerves or actual issues???

I canrt really describe how I feel☹️ ive been with him for 3 years and I just look at him and dont feel anything anymore. I have read lots of great info on here and have been getting really excited but when I try to talk to him about it he just changes the subject. im not a bridezilla who keeps going on all the time its avery low key wedding ( only 20 family and friends all day) no one has forced anyone into doing anything they dont want to do.

i think I am going to have to accept its over

Boys minds are not wired in the same way when it comes to weddings.

Have to you talked to him about why he changes the subject, it could be that he is worried about something else, money, the marriage (believe it or not it is a big deal and a huge step), if he is shy it could be nerves about being the centre of attention.

If you don't love him anymore, you need to talk to him.

General theme of my advice... talk to him!

If there is any doubt in your mind then the answer is no, you shouldn't go ahead with the wedding. You need time to re-evaluate your relationship and decide whether you have something worth saving x

It is a lot easier to cancel a wedding then it is to get a divorce.

If you don't feel anything for him, you need to sit down with him and have a serious talk about it.

Do you actually want to be married? Forget the actual wedding and think about the marriage, sometimes you get caught up in the whole wedding.

If he changes the subject, is it money that is stressing him out or just the fact he isn't that bothered about weddings?

S x

I will agree to that 100%. It is a big thing to say that you look at him and don't feel anything anymore. That is a sign that you are probably with the wrong person. And there shouldn't be any doubts, it is ok to get last min nerves just before your wedding, but nothing to doubt whether you are making the right decision. If there is even 1% of doubt then you shouldn't do it. I am really sorry....I really don't mean to sound harsh....but that would be the truth for you!!!! :-(

I think if you don't feel anything for him anymore then unfortunately that says it all.