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nicky1980
Beginner February 2011

Please help settle a discussion between me and my H2B - Would your other half.....

nicky1980, 30 September, 2010 at 20:20 Posted on Planning 0 43

Stroke your hair until you fell asleep?!?!?!?

I'm finding it really hard to get to sleep at the moment and he was just asking me if it took me long last night - then laughed as he said he fell asleep fine! He's very lovely really but when I said 'You could always stroke my hair until I fell asleep!' - This was a joke as I know I have no hope he said - ' There is no man that would do that for his wife' - I disagree and he said I should put it to you all to see how many husbands and OH's that would do this!

This makes him sound awful but he is very lovely and shows he loves me in many other ways!?

So the question is how many of your partners would do this for you???? I wait to hear your responses!!! Thank you in advance!!!

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Latest activity by JST, 4 October, 2010 at 21:27
  • M
    Beginner April 2011
    mrsneeds2b ·
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    Unfortunatly i think mine would fall asleep himself whilst doing it, and i don't think that counts! :-)

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  • lauren700
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    Hmmm I think mine would say something along the lines of 'stroke your own hair!' or just s*d off! haha! again very loving!! but not when he's tired!

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  • charliebird7
    Beginner March 2012
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    If he did, he would definantly fall asleep before me!

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  • teeheeyoucrazyguys!
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    No, i dont think he would out of sheer boredom but he does bring me a horlicks most nights and puts the leccy blanket on for me ....

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  • TheNinjaPigeon
    Beginner January 2011
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    I've never asked mine for this particular thing, but he'd get my hot water bottle and an extra blanket and give me a cuddle until I'm asleep. He probably would if I asked.

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  • tinks269
    Beginner February 2011
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    Just asked him and got a very quick short sharp 'no' followed a couple of seconds later that actually he would (my heart soared and i felt a flutter in my stomach) then he carried on to say that he would only have to stroke my head 4 or 5 times and i would be asleep so wouldnt be too bad. And they say romance is dead. However you do have one yes from me!!!

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  • MrsBear2b
    Beginner August 2011
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    OH sleeps on his front, so every night he cuddles me and strokes my back till I fall asleep then nudges me off to my side then rolls over himself. Not so much stroking hair, but I'm sure he wouldn't mind. So that's a yes.

    xxx

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  • mrsgreatbatch2b
    Beginner July 2012
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    Sorry girls but my OH is a star.

    We often fall asleep in each others arms while his stroking my hair or rubbing my back, both ways relax me.

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    Yes my OH does this all the time.

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  • nicky1980
    Beginner February 2011
    nicky1980 ·
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    Thank you for all the answers so far!! I've been reading the answers out to him and he just said 'Get away - they're making it up!' Lol ?

    I think he thinks if he believes you he'll have to do it!!! As he pointed out though it can take me over an hour and half to go to sleep! It took me long enough to persuade him I needed a kiss when he gets up for work before me! He loves it really though!!! ?

    Your lucky ladies if you get this though!!! But I wouldn't change him!! I'll just keep asking!! ?

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  • lovelygirl
    Beginner August 2011
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    My H2b would do it! in fact he does it quite often when i can't sleep due to period pain!

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  • ajdown
    VIP September 2011
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    I would if asked.

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  • Snow Patroller
    Snow Patroller ·
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    Bloke doesn't stroke my hair but he does often put his hand on my head as we're both dozing off, which at first I found really annoying but now I've got used to it ... I don't have much hair for him to stroke tbh - which I think he's a bit meh about - he'd prefer me to have long hair. He might stroke it then! (er - insert rude comment here!)

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  • Browny
    Beginner June 2011
    Browny ·
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    Yes and he does! But he does fall asleep mid-tickle quite often and I have to nudge him awake to carry on! ?

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  • fizzypop
    Beginner July 2011
    fizzypop ·
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    I often have a painful back or joints, and Mr FP strokes my head and back to make me feel better. He moans about it if I ask too much, though, but he is very sweet to me x

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  • *Bea*
    Beginner October 2011
    *Bea* ·
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    LMAO no chance! My OH is amazing and i love him to bits but that just wouldnt happen ?

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  • Shnarfy1
    Beginner November 2010
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    Mine would, he sometimes strokes my face until I fall asleep.

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  • debmci
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    I love these wee funny chatty threads! Smiley smile Well I would like to think that my OH would. We do not live together and wont for another couple of weeks so we dont have a complete day in day out routine. He does like playing with my hair at times tho, and it is super relaxing. Mind you if he had 2 stay awake just to do that, well he might fall asleep himself before i did!

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  • BumbleBrat
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    My H2B is waaaaaaaaaay too soft on me, he does pretty much anything I ask him and more so yeah he would if I asked. I've told him it's his fault I'm such a brat, he's made me this way by always being so nice to me and doing everything I ask lol!

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  • D
    Beginner November 2011
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    No chance!!!

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  • LollyB
    Beginner September 2010
    LollyB ·
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    I just asked my hubby and he said he would but wouls probably fall asleep doing it!! Ah bless him, its the thought that counts!!!

    xxx

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  • Lynseys Designs
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    Lynseys Designs ·
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    We have quite a set sleeping pattern which I love. H makes me diluting juice every night and puts it in the fridge for me as I always need a drink during the night and then if we go to bed together I cuddle into his chest for a bit with twisty legs, then he cuddles into my back, then I cuddle into his back and hey presto generally fall asleep!

    If I couldn't fall asleep and he was aware of this he would probably do something to help me but not sure if he would play with my hair, it would probably annoy me anyway.

    I'm quite spoilt as I get breakfast made for me every weekend and he does a lot of running about for me like going to the post office, paying cheques into the bank and if I needed something like chocolate he'd go get me it after a few sad looks! hehe

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  • Houdini
    Beginner August 2010
    Houdini ·
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    Gotta be said, my H would! He's actually really good to me (though generally earning brownie points so he can go out! ?)

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  • avintagebride
    Beginner March 2012
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    Absolutely no chance!!!

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  • MrsS29
    Beginner May 2015
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    Ha i love this question!!

    I just shouted my h2b in from playing his beloved playstation and asked him and he said 'yeah' then walked away. I think he might have been saying it to shut me up though!!!

    I'll test it out tonight as im a total insomniac ha ha x

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  • debmci
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    I asked my nearly husband when he was on the phone earlier! And he said "sure i always play with your hair. I like doin that. course I would!" Aw I have got a really good one!

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  • Snuggle-bum
    Beginner July 2011
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    Mines a big fat YES!!!

    H2b ALWAYS plays with my hair even when watching TV, i NEVER ask him either. He always ask's me if i want him to do it if he wakes up in the night and i'm reading my book!!

    He's so cute, but i think it relax's him too!!

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  • overtherainbow
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    Hi - just noticed you're from my home town, Wakey! Whereabouts in Wakefield are you? Mine would be snoring after the first stroke I'm afraid! But then he does get up at 4.ooam every morning for work whereas I can get up when I feel like it LOL!

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  • Sherrie H
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    Mine does all the time and I am usually asleep within ten minutes! I don't know if it is the hair stroking or if it is because most nights I have done a 18hr day!

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  • MrsMac2be
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    I THINK THIS ONE IS DEFINATELY GOING TO HAVE AN AWWWW FACTOR...

    Myself and Rich had only been together for about 2 months when I suddenly got ill and was rushed into hospital, after having 2 major operations (12 hours between each one) to save my life, Rich was there all through it, stroking my hair, wiping my face with a warm flannel etc etc.. being there was I in ICU, he never left my bedside for the 1st week...

    I know this isnt very similar to the hair stroking thing to go to sleep but he topped that, I knew then that one day I would be his wife and I cant wait until 11th August 2012 to do this... getting rather damp eyes now lol xx

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  • MrsBear2b
    Beginner August 2011
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    Yep you're right. Awwwwww that is lovely, what an absolutely wonderful man you have!

    Sorry to hear about your illness, hope all is well now.

    xx

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  • Flowmojo
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    My h2b does all the time, when wer watchin tv, sitting in cinema, lying in bed.

    Her thinks it stems from him twizzling his mums hair when he was little as a comfort thing..im not going argue with thi Smiley smile

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