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Beginner February 2014

Please say its not just me....

Mrsdsoon, 12 September, 2013 at 11:09 Posted on Planning 0 11

Arghhh seriously i feel like my head is about to explode. I seem to eat sleep and breathe wedding. I dream about the table centrepieces, wake up and write notes about what im thinking, constantly research things, worry that our cake display won't look like it does in my head, will the bridesmaids hair look ok on them all and ridiculous nonsense.

i love it all but just want to switch off from it for a moment but can't.... !!

tell me im not the only one feeling like this please ?

x

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Latest activity by MrsDaysh2b, 12 September, 2013 at 20:39
  • *J9*
    VIP March 2014
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    I went through a stage like this right after we got engaged. I barely slept for about 2 weeks. Thank god it didn't last long!

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  • MischiefMumma
    Beginner August 2014
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    Thank god Im not the only one!!! I dont think Ive ever been so stressed about anything in my life. I keep dreaming that OH is going to walk in to the roomo im getting ready in and say thats hes forgotten something and ruin the wedding because hes cast bad luck on us. I write EVERYTHING down. I bought a wedding planner book and am heading for another one because its filled with every little thing I think might be required for the wedding. I write all my ideas incase Ive forgotten something. Dont worry. Im neurotic about it. But id rather be neurotic and have every avenue covered than get to a week before the wedding and realised Ive forgotten loads of things or even just one thing!!

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  • *2014bride*
    Beginner August 2014
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    Haha, not just you, I can fully relate to that. I am constantly thinking of ideas and I've got right into DIY projects. Just hope I'm not taking on too much!

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  • Childhood-Sweet<3
    Beginner July 2014
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    This totally! I am constantly making things!! Still got plenty of time (I hope!)

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  • S
    Beginner October 2013
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    I've been dreaming weddings just lately.

    Ithink I've had 3 in a row this week with varying disasters included!

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  • cass_b
    Beginner April 2014
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    Your not the only one, I am in this stage with just under 7 months to go, everything seems to be getting on top of me, my hair and what to put in it, veil head piece etc is stressing me out big time, weight, cake, flowers, bridesmaids I could go on....just need to take a step back and switch off for a while. I keep telling myself it's 1 day!!!

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  • AuntieBJ
    Beginner September 2014
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    Definitely not the only one! I'm at the stage where I can't really do much, waiting for my invite supplies to arrive so I can get started making them. I wake every day wanting to do something wedding related and I know I'm boring everyone stupid but can't help myself!!!

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  • M
    Beginner August 2014
    Miss B 2 be Mrs H ·
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    Yep I am exactly the same! As soon as I get up each morning I HAVE to check Hitched. Then research different things and sending emails in between normal life but it all has taken over! The OH warned me this would happen and he hopes he won't be hearing about wedding stuff for the next year...oops! I write things down all the time too. The other night I couldn't sleep, my mind was whirring with ideas and thoughts and I had to get up to write notes...but, I LOVE IT!! ? x

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  • Penny P
    Beginner March 2014
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    Yep, that's me too! I have NEVER felt so stressed in my life! I have my own business and usually thrive under pressure and never stress but I had a mini breakdown last week. I dreamt about buffet food and chair covers! ? I had to ban wedding talk for a few days and tried my hardest not to look online at anything weddingy to give myself a change to calm down!

    I feel a little better now but we see the last venue option tonight and then we need to decide on a venue by Monday and get everything booked as it's just 24 weeks Saturday we're planning on getting wed! ARRGGGHHH I feel another mini breakdown coming on!

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  • MrsOh
    Beginner May 2014
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    I'm the same. I have recently had nightmares - yes nightmares! about the bloody centre pieces. I shouldn't care so much about them but I just cant help it...

    You are definitely not alone in your madness unfortunately! Smiley smile

    x

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  • M
    Beginner February 2014
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    Ah thank goodness then i am not the only one who is bonkers.

    I do worry that all my friends are already sick to the back teeth of it tho !

    and i would prefer that stress made me skinny instead of made me want to eat eat eat .... as then it will be another stress of not fitting into my dress !!

    oh dear im off again....

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  • MrsDaysh2b
    Beginner September 2014
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    I was like this when we first got engaged but I've calmed down a bit now!!

    I just try and focus on the reason why we're doing it - to proclaim our love and commitment to each other in front of our closest friends and family so try not to worry about each little detail - your day will be perfect whatever you have/don't have.

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