Post-wedding rant

You will always upset someone but you both had your dream day your way! I would ignore her, what kind of language is that to use (fxcking hell) when you hear of someone else's good news! Xx

Urgh, Christ some people are so crass. Quite possible that her husband did mention it but that she's either A too self absorbed or B only just gone onto facebook and has commented as if she didn't know.

I would either totally ignore her, or comment saying no one knew except family, I'd also be tempted to say would have been nice to see you when you came over, but that one is probably up to your H.

Weddings make people feel they have some sort of weird rights!

^^^^ exactly this! She'd most probably had a few too many vino's and thought she was brave behind a computer, bet she wouldn't say it to your face if you bumped into her at the local shop.

Yeah, very possibly. Looking at H's pic he actually captioned it "snuck off to Gretna to get married", so even if she didn't so much as glance at the preceding comments, that made it obvious that nobody knew. I know you can't tell tone over the internet so maybe she was joking, but it didn't sound it to me. Thank goodness they do live in Aus so we won't have to invite them to our party, when we get round to having one..

Perfect caption from Mr ID. Haha, I totally think you should invite them

Perfect caption from Mr ID. Haha, I totally think you should invite them

She sounds like a dick. Let your husband deal with it and ignore.

I think you're actually over-exagerating. I would view that comment as a light hearted one. If you don't know her, how do you know she's actually offended at not being invited?

I don't. And as I said in one of my earlier posts, you can't tell tone on the internet - maybe she is joking. I didn't have a sleepless night over it or anything - it just narked me, y'know? But hey ho, it's done now.

I guess it's hard to tell on t'interweb - my friend often speaks like this, so I read it in a jokey way.

The interesting thing is that I said to my H "it comes across as weird and entitled, is she normally like that?" and he said "err.." and hesitated before adding "no". I don't know how he knows them - I suspect just part of the old Rockworld crowd - but it seems like perhaps he liked the husband and just tolerated the wife

I think you might be reading a bit too much into it. Wouldn't take it personally if i were you. YOu're always going to get some plonker saying stupid stuff. I can see how you'd be annoyed about it though.

Could you hide her post?

I dunno, maybe. It's annoying that it's the last comment on the pic after over 100 posts of congrats, and will probably stay that way now! But it's entirely possible I read too much into it. Some people add six exclamation marks to everything they say, maybe she's one of those people.

If it makes you feel any better something similar happened to us.

one of OH's FB friends commented on a picture of the confetti shot posted moments after it was taken by a mate. she put something like this:

' you got married????! [err did she think we always dress like that?] Thanks for no invite! Beautiful bride [i.e. she couldn't remember my name]'

Haha!! why even bother?

As we've said before, weddings do seem to turn people into snivelling idiots!

Considering she's said something nice in trying to get you to go on honeymoon to Aus in the same or next sentence I think she said it in a nice and jokey way & you might have been 'narked' at something you didn't mean to be.

I don't think she's acting like she's insulted at all.

Breathe!!!

Exactly this! This is how I took it. I understand that if you're not used to that kind of OTT response then you might not get it but my friends quite often speak like this and it's just banter.

Yeah, it could well be. I'm not very used to 'banter' as my friends aren't really like that. She's the first person to express annoyance at not having been invited, even in a jokey way, so I was a bit taken aback by it! No chance of a honeymoon in Australia though, I hate hot weather, hence having a January wedding

The joys of the internet & a person you dont really know- you dont know whether she was just being a cow or joking around, or both!

Its like when we got engaged, and everyone was saying congrats, one of our mates put 'feel sick.' I read it as banter coz thats how that group of mates are, but people who dont know him may have thought he was being rude etc.

Maybe get your other half to delete that post off the pic if you don't want it on there as the last post?!