...they have now split up ha ha. All that drama for nothing!! Dad told me to leave a spot for him in case he met anyone else, I didn't reply.... ?
Can anyone give me any advice on what to do about this? Got a text from Dad this morning saying he's started going out with a work colleague who he's known for years, turns out they both have strong feelings for each other and so he'll be bringing her to the wedding. My response - that's great Dad, congratulations, but I'll have to let you know about the wedding, we've not got definite numbers sorted yet so I'll have to let you know if we can squeeze her in. Dad's response - I'm sure you'll manage, it's only one person and it's very important to me. My response - I'll do my best Dad, but don't invite her or anything until I've confirmed. Dad - too late, I already have, hope that's not a problem.
I've not replied because I'm really angry. Our wedding is four months today, I've never even met this woman and knowing my Dad, there's a more than 50% that they won't be seeing each other come October. I'm seeing him on Saturday so I was hoping to just speak to him face to face rather than carry on texting about it as Dad can take offence VERY easily and I don't want to argue with him over this, but how can he not see that it just isn't on to invite someone to someone else's wedding, at such short notice, who I've never met before? How can I nicely tell him this? I don't want to be worrying up until the last day if she's coming or not, or having to re-jig table plans last minute, or have her on the wedding photos if they don't stay together.
Just a bit of perspective on Dad, he left my mum when I was 17 for another woman who's been on and off the scene all the time (he's even seen her at some point this year as he's mentioned her to me), I've met and had dinner with about 15 other women over the years when he's found "the one" and wanted me to meet them - they all end up "turning into psychos" and then he never speaks to them again. He's very immature relationship wise, which is why I have no faith in current Mrs X being any different (not just me overreacting!).
TIA xx