OH and I both work shifts in a bar and it can be difficult to know if a time off request has been honoured until the last second. I only found out this currents week shifts at 7.30pm on Sunday for example. It's a nightmare trying to do anything unless it's planned 6 weeks in advance. So 6 weeks ago we contacted the tog to arrange our engagement shoot, agreeing that she gave us the date and we would book the day off. The idea was that we would have the shoot at the beach local to us and hopefully the proofs would be ready in time for the end of the month when all our parents are getting together to show them.
So I contact the tog on Sunday as soon as I see the rota in attempt to arrange times to meet and where etc. Her reply was to that she has now arranged to meet businesses local to her for a charity tombola, which I guess is promoting her business heavily, on the Saturday we agreed to do the e shoot. I was told in the email that the shoot would be a bad idea due to bad light and the solution would be to just book another weekend off again to suit her rather than us. Due to the way the requests work neither OH or I can book any other weekend off until January, even then I've been offered a new job in January and I'm not sure what or where I will be working. I personally had to make a huge effort to get my manager to even remember that I booked the day off.
In my reply to the tog I told her about the time off situation in a matter of fact way not wanting to create a fuss but not being friendly either. Both of us were really looking forward to the shoot and to being able to show off the photos to our parents. The tog in question has only 3 weddings to her name (with another 3 to go next year inc us) but has done quite a few family shoots and is currently in the process of turning fully pro. I guess that's happening soon because her fee has doubled from what we've paid. Her photos and excitement for our plans are amazing but I'm really worried about the lack of professionalism and what is going to happen at the wedding.
OH thinks I should chill out and relax because we will still get the e shoot just nearer to the wedding but I'm so ? I don't know what else to do and she has yet to reply to my email about booking another weekend off.