My beautiful little girl turned 5 a month ago. Tonight was parents evening and I met with her teacher and psychologist (she has Asperger Syndrome - a form of high functioning autism).
Anyway, the sum of it was she has an IQ of 136 and a reading age of 13. She's also at year 8 in puzzle solving or something. Obviously I am very proud but I feel so sad. She's clearly a very talented little girl and may well go on to a brilliant future. But right now, life is so tough for her. She struggles to intergrate even though she clearly so desperately wants to.
I was so proud that they told me she is a truly lovely person - kind and caring and very loving. I've tried hard to make sure she enjoys everything around her - taking her out at night to see the stars, to looking at nature through her magnifiying glass. I tell her how all people are special and that we should do our best to look after each other. She's a huge character with a love of planets and penguins and everything inbetween.
But she's so much an outcast. She makes friends, but they quickly loose interest because of her eccentric behaviour and there have been numerous times I've had to nurse her broken heart and tell her that people like her even if they don't always play with her and that she's a lot to give. But, if she has a sleep over, it's me who 'stays over' - do our nails, watch a movie and both sleep on her floor. She loves it (as do I) but it's not good because I am her mother but, really, her best friend. I take her to kids social gatherings and hang back as best I can, but it always ends in tears - hers first, then mine.
Everyone thinks her intellect is marvellous and I am proud of her, but her ability to read etc. (which she learned herself - not been taught) is symptomatic of a problem that make life hard for her.
Sorry, no real point to this. Just needed to get it off my chest and share.