I had an affair which lasted short of 1 year. I ended it in the summer and have made sure neither of is will speak again. He is getting wed in March but I know he will never tell her and will get married anyway.
We spoke in secret whenever he was away from her and met up in secret too. We were physical but I stopped it before it crossed the no going back line. He wanted to be more physical (all the way) and was quite happy to have us both obviously before and during the marriage too.
Now I know there are clearly problems in their relationship as he confided in me about everything all day every day so something is broken there. Obviously I think he's making a mistake knowingly and so is she . She deserves to know but I've kept quiet because I thought it would be wrong to tell her and wanted to get on with my life hassle free.
I don't know her personally and I made a mistake I cared for the man . At least I left.
Would you want to know?
