Rant - Really Fed UP

Please excuse my spelling was typing very fast where im angry

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No you aren't being a ssc :-)

You won't notice their shoes on the day - you will have a hubby to look at.

BM very rude to say the jewellry is hideous, she didn't have to comment, she wouldn't have to wear it again after the wedding if she didn't want to! Just ignore her.

Don't worry about it - try to enjoy your night before - have a long bubble bath and an early night - then you don't have to spend much time with them ;-)

I agree about the jwellery, twas rude of her indeed. It was a gift to her and she could have accepted it graciously.

As for the shoes, well whats so hideous about them? wrong colour? not elegant enough? They should have run their ideas past you I think....

are you sharing a room with them or just being at the hotel with them? I suggest you lock the door, run a bubble bath and have some me time from 8pm onwards

I'm sorry that she didn't like the jewellery and that your sister is not able to help with the suits, but I do think you are allowing yourself to get upset about things that don't matter. In all 200 photos from my wedding I don't think you can see a single bridesmaid's shoe - and I had 5 of them!

None of these things really matter in the end, so please try not to lose too much sleep over them.

Hi,

Im even more fed up today then yesterday massive problem with a couple of the suits and now i have to drive here there and everywhere to sort them out

the shoes i had told both to get what they wanted but they was either going for silver or they both said they was going to get shoes the same colour as their dresses (greeney blue) they both have bought white not a nice white either (nothig in the rest of the wedding is white) and youc an see them

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

I think it's just got to the point in planning that there is nothing left to do but stress - and that's what you are doing (so am I so that's not me being rude). I know the details are important to you at the moment because that's what we can control but on the day they will fade into insignificance and it will be walking down the aisle, saying your vows and enjoying yourself that will really matter - things you can't practice at the moment! I hope you feel better - just remember it's the stress that's causing you to feel like this.

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I think it's probably really easy for things to blow of all proportion when you're 2 days from your wedding and very stressed. I would take a step back, remind yourself why you asked these women to be your bridesmaids in the first place - they must be very special to you - then breathe, and tell yourself that jewellery and shoe colour just doesn't matter In The Bigger Picture. The furthest thing from your mind on the day will be their shoes, I promise. Focus on aaaaall the wonderful things you're really excited about instead. It would be a real shame to spend the few final days before the wedding getting upset about stuff.

It will all work out. The shoes do not really matter and will be the last things you think of when you are saying your vows. Like above post says you probably wont even see them in any of the tog photos. So chin up and start trying to relax before the big day.

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is there any way you can get the dress let out a wee bit before friday, to srt the tight dress prob. I bought my BMs shoes, and theirs are the same as mine, so I know mine will be fine. Aw just remind the girls who the bride is! I was BM for my friend last year and I wore what I was told and did as I was told. I have given my BMs a wee bit more of a choice on their dresses etc as I had, but I still have the over all say! (With my mum, bless her!) I think you should still stay with the girls the night before after all. You will need the time to "make ammends" with them if you know what i mean. As for the 15 yr old girl coming up...dont worry about that...shes a teenager and probably didnt realise she wasnt supposed to see the dress. Just tell her that shes not to say a word.

try and not panic yourself my dear!! All is going to be fine!!