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Ohwhatatuesday
Beginner May 2014

Reading over other people's shoulders

Ohwhatatuesday, 30 January, 2014 at 16:44 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 26

Does anyone else do this? I know it's rude and against social etiquette but I can't help but nose at what other people are doing when I'm on a train or somewhere similar. The lady next to me is emailing quite a stern telling off to what appears to be an employee and I can't stop looking. It's very intriguing. I'm the same with conversations. Shamefully nosy. I'm currently trying not to get caught peeking.

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Latest activity by Ohwhatatuesday, 1 February, 2014 at 14:45
  • McFarley
    Beginner September 2014
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    Hmmm, I would say I'm a little bit like this too, although hate it when people do it to me! If I catch onto something then I am soooo curious and inquisitive I find it really difficult to leave something alone. It is terrible really! I'm sure I drive Mr McFarley nuts, lol x

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  • Hoddy
    Beginner July 2014
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    I don't. And I have a friend who comes into my house and will open documents that I leave around the house. One example being I was working out how much I owe suppliers and had my caricature artist form out one night. Next day she comes in and just stands there opening it up and reading it thinking I couldn't see her doing it. Winds me up so much so I would never do it to others. Might be too different a scenario to what you mean though.

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  • Holey
    Beginner July 2011
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    Woah Hoddy I think that's really bad!

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  • *MM3*
    Beginner June 2014
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    I don't do this as I hate when people do it to me if i'm using my phone etc. I am nosey in other ways and love to listen in to conversations and arguments though ?

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  • Twiga
    Beginner April 2012
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    Ha! I hope she is not looking over your shoulder at what you are typing Dream Catch Me... ?

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  • Ohwhatatuesday
    Beginner May 2014
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    I wouldn't go that far Hoddy! But I am pretty bad, and I know I shouldn't do it. I'm such a hypocrite though because I'd be really annoyed if someone was doing it to me. Though I judge people by my own standards and I keep my screen angled away from people when I remember. I try to distract myself to stop myself from doing it but it's so tempting when I can easily see it, especially if it's interesting.

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  • Ohwhatatuesday
    Beginner May 2014
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    Haha! I made sure my screen was well away from her :-)

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  • Twiga
    Beginner April 2012
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    Actually this reminds me of a time when a guy leaned over my shoulder on the tube and told me how to finish my sudoko - the cheek!

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  • McFarley
    Beginner September 2014
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    OMG Twiga, that is bang out of order! What a cheek!

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  • Twiga
    Beginner April 2012
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    I know! I gave him a death stare before getting off and frantically writing in the answers on the escalator ?

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  • Ohwhatatuesday
    Beginner May 2014
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    Haha! I think that's quite funny!

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  • *Funky*
    Beginner January 2001
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    I don't do it and hate other people doing it,

    I have actually been tutted at a few times on the tube where someone has been reading my paper over my shoulder and I have turned the page evidently before they had finished reading. ?

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  • McFarley
    Beginner September 2014
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    Lol!!!! x

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  • Cat In A Teacup
    Beginner August 2015
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    I don't do it, and it really bugs me when OH does it to me!

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  • Erin8
    Beginner June 2014
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    I hate it too. It is like having a bloody parrot on your shoulder!

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  • Ohwhatatuesday
    Beginner May 2014
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    Oh no you're making me feel worse!! At least I know other people do it - but it seems Otters have more manners than me! ?

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  • Helenia
    Beginner September 2011
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    I sometimes glance over to see what people are reading but don't stop to read it in detail, because I hate people doing it to me. H sometimes does it when I'm on the computer and it really annoys me because I read much faster than him and he then makes me wait!

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  • Hoddy
    Beginner July 2014
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    Yep. And she knows she shouldn't do it because I stood behind her watching her do it and when she turned around it made her jump when she saw me there! It was actually meant to be a surprise for our guests as well!!

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  • Storky
    Beginner May 2011
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    Reading others' smutty texts is the highlight of my tube journey every day.

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  • Kjay
    Beginner August 2013
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    I do it I am a nosy ***.

    A girl was opposite me on the train once constantly texting and looking upset, then she happened to be in front of me at the queue for tube tickets and was still texting- I sneaked a peak and it was pretty obvious it was a break up Smiley sad I felt awful... although it hasn't stopped me.

    When I used to check tickets I would hover and comment on articles people were reading- I often got the '*** off now' death stare!

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  • N
    Beginner January 2008
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    I think there is a difference between blatantly reading over someones shoulder, not just to sneak a look but to actually read their paper, book etc (which I dont do and find very annoying when people do it to me) and sneaking a look at what someone is reading/texting or listening in on a conversation (which I do sometimes do)

    Like others have said if it is something juicy and you can blatantly see or hear it I think it is human nature to sneak a look or listen, but maybe I'm just nosy !

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  • J
    Beginner August 2014
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    I was on the train once and could see between the seats that the guy in front of me had Grindr open on his phone. He started sending messages and I was bored so I was being nosey.

    That backfired once he loaded up an image that he'd received of the other guy's pork sword! It was far too early to be seeing that.

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  • Ohwhatatuesday
    Beginner May 2014
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    Storky & Kjay - I'm sooo glad I'm not the only one, I was starting to think I was on my own with this (apart from everyone's other halves it would seem :-))

    Jenpops - this made me laugh! I've never heard the term pork sword before

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  • Twiga
    Beginner April 2012
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    Me neither ?

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  • Rod
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    It's a compulsion!! I hate people doing it to me but if someone's on their phone I can't help but look!

    The other day a guy was texting at least 3 different women the same messages, lots of 'select all' 'copy' 'paste' going on! Best one was the woman who got a picture sent to her and when she opened it, it was a willy!! I nearly burst out laughing as she giggled, clearly a bit shocked and looked round to check noone saw!

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  • Mellow_Yellow
    Beginner May 2012
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    Pork sword - wahahahaha ?

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  • Ohwhatatuesday
    Beginner May 2014
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    It's my new favourite - that and 'happy stick' from the strip club thread - it's amazing what hitched has taught me ?

    Rod - they're the ones I love - when they're a bit juicy but I have to stop myself from asking what's going on.

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