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This is so irritating! The evening guests don't matter so much do they? If you are having a sit down meal and table plan etc during the day you'll have to call everyone on your list that hasn't RSVP'd yet and narrow it down. Or put a message on facebook asking them to own up?! x

I've heard of people numbering the back of their RSVP's so it relates to each invite, I think it's a good idea to adopt.

Hope you find out who it is, are you waiting on many RSVP's or did you think you have had them all back?

Can you not just call the people you haven't had a response from and ask if it's them?

We chased everyone we hadn't heard off, there's a couple who we have not been able to get hold off - didn't answer our messages, text or fb or answered the phone, obviously people we don't see often so we weren't too worried. It could be one of these, but it could be someone who's told us verbally that they weren't coming and have now decided to change their minds. Feel a bit annoyed with myself for not numbering the replies, also I've just checked my invitations and although the evening ones say evening on the invitation the RSVP doesn't. So having calmed down a bit it could, fingers crossed, just be an evening reply, in which case it doesn't matter. But it's frustrating that I don't know and I could kick myself that we didn't notice til now.... And everything was running so smoothly until this. Never mind I've got my final dress fitting later on, so hoping that goes well!

June 1st was the deadline date

Oh my god, what I pain! I hope you find out who it is, and I really hope it's just an evening guest! Haha, winterweddingbecs, it is absolutely the done thing, but people seem to ignore them!