My word what a complicated affair a wedding is... There I was thinking popping the question was going to be the hard part.. I thought once that's out the way a few months (or a year) down the line I'd get an invitation and a suit and all I do is turn up and say "I do"....well, I wasn't really THAT naive.
But really, it's close to a nightmare than something with enjoyable stress...
Limited to the location - Jersey, Channel Islands because one half of the family won't travel - and it's the bigger half I suppose.
Then there are the family squabbles of who doesn't like who, "if they go I won't" kind of cr*p.
Sadly there is no option of 'close family and friends' because some of the 'friends' are actually classed as 'distant family' - so that'll get the 'not so distant family' backs up!!
Ahhh then my side it's exactly any easier - close family would be brothers and sisters really... Well, 3 of my cousins are LIKE brothers and sisters, so again back full circle on my part... then there are 10 children under 10 to account for and make sure they're able to be included in something somewhere somehow...
...So you can see the eloping attraction right?
THEN again, I have a few friends who I would really like at the wedding, I'd love my cousin (who is like a brother) to be the best man, love my mum and dad to be there... then I'm sure my fiancee would miss her folks at the wedding too..
..Is this just the usual wedding stuff??? or are we even more complicated than most..