Hi
I'm currently planning my second wedding - I was married the first time 5 years ago when I was a very nieve 22, the marriage was annuled very quickly afterwards at my request. I'm writing this because I wanted to know if anyone else has been in a similar situation and had the same anxieties that I'm having and did you get over it?
I love my partner very much and I am going into this wedding/marriage with my eyes open but I feel like a complete fraud, I realised I was walking into shops and within 5 minutes having told them this was my second wedding. I messed the first one up big time and I guess I feel like I dont deserve another go. I believe that you get married for life before god, so I guess on some level I believe what I'm doing is wrong. But I want to get married very much, I want to have that commited married family unit before having children. I really dont want my guilt/anxiety to ruin what should be exciting and my partner doesnt deserve the constant reminder that I've done this before but I'm struggling to get over it.
Any ideas welcome.