Sorry I haven't been on this week - I know I am barely contributing to the forum lately ? but I really would be so grateful for your vibes please
OH has had some bad news on Sunday night we found that his cousin has lost her baby at 29 weeks which is simply terrible, then on Monday morning H2B's nan called us complaining of severe chest pain - we drove to see her and took her to A&E they told us that she has a large mass on her trachea which they think is lung cancer.
They sent her home with the intetntion to have a CT scan and biopsy - this morning she called us again in pain - her lung has collapsed and R is on his way to take her to A&E again, we live in Portsmouth and she is all the way in Basingstoke so we cant be with her all the time to make sure she is ok - she doesnt want to go to hospital she just wants to stay at home and give up ? we need her to fight this disease
I am so upset for nan as she is such a brave lady after everything she has been through and for R he has no family left, his mum died of lung cancer christmas 2008, his uncle is in NZ and also has terminal cancer - his father is estranged, his brother lives in the USA and only wants to be called when Nan has died ?, - grandad died of pnuemonia 1 year ago.... he has no one left - if Nan dies he will simply give up - he keeps saying that at the wedding there will be no one there from his family and I I dont know what to do, I feel so helpless sat here at work - I cant help him or Nan, Please send some get well Nan vibes, I would be so grateful x
Sorry that turned into an essay
