Hi there, I'm new to hitched and thought I'd jump straight in to my most difficult decision. I hope you will come up with some great ideas
Sadly at the beginning of this year my fiancé's father passed away. It was a very difficult time for everyone involved as he became ill and deteriorated very quickly. We never thought he would not be part of our wedding.
I am trying to find a way we can remember him on our day. Without it taking over and becoming very sad. I have had a few ideas but mine all seem to personal (more suited if he were my father) and my OH's sister can be very jealous of things regarding the memory of her dad (for example I mentioned that it would be nice to use her fathers name for a child's middle name as its a tradition in my family, she is nine years older than me, settled in her family and not planning any more children or I would have thought she would like to do it, but she refused to speak to me for over a week)
So please any thoughts on how we could remember a great man who is sorely missed.