Settle a disagreement for me OT

Wedding, engagement, eternity

WR, EngR, EtR.

Americans are weird. They do ER then WR.

From knuckle

wedding ring

eternity ring

then engagement ring

From knuckle up I wear wedding ring, engagement ring.

Wedding ring, engagement ring, eternity ring. Although I don't know why - just for balance I think!

Same as the others, i wear wedding ring, the Engagement, and will wear eternity ring next year on top!

I used to wear mine eternity, wedding then engagement, my rings just looked better that way.

Now I'm divorced, they've all been remodeled into 1 super fabby ring

Wedding, engagement, eternity. You can buy the sets and they're in that order. Obviously you take your engagement ring off when you get married then plonk it on top of your wedding band then eternity ring is added later.

From the knuckle (that attaches my finger to my hand!) I have wedding ring Eternity ring (havent got an engagement ring) but i didnt think it really mattered did it?

Sorry to be difficult but I'd probably go with whichever looked best or was most comfortable rather than what was the 'right' way.

Wedding, engagement, eternity.

See this is what my Mum says is right because "you wear the eternity next to your wedding ring to show you marriage is eternal" I've never heard that in my whole life! I've been wearing (since I got it on our anniversary and she has totally seen it and never mentioned it before) wedding ring, engagement ring, eternity ring. It looks better that way but I kinda like the sentiment of what she said if its true...

You could also think the eternity ring goes on top to 'seal the deal' though...

It obviously depends what looks and feels best, but my engagement ring will always be the only one that has a doofer in the middle and the others will be a plain band or flush gems, so the engagement ring will always look best in the middle. Kind of like this, but these aren't mine.

ETA

Agree with this. We talked about an eternity as a 10th anniversary present or something, so wouldn't want to change the way I'd worn my other for son long. It'll be weird enough having something before my engagement ring. I've had that for 4 years already, 6 by the time we get married.

Tortoise? What the heck is a "doofer"? ?

You know, a thing. mine's diamond, but obviously people have different ones ?

I've seen those sets that tortoise has posted which obviously go in a particular order, but other than that, I hadn't really thought about it.

I don't think I can have an eternity ring because my fingers are too short! But if I did, it'd actually have to go underneath my wedding ring, because my wedding ring is shaped to my engagement ring.

I think my mum wears wedding then eternity and on the odd occasion she wears her engagement ring, that's on top.

I know people who wear their wedding ring over their engagement ring which looks weird to me but it's all personal preference.

I see! Never heard anything be called that before now! Might have to puzzle the OH with that one!

From knuckle up I wear wedding ring, engagement ring then eternity ring. It looks best this way but I thought you take your engagement ring off when you get married so wedding ring first, then engagement ring back on top then as Saisi said an engagement ring to 'seal the deal'

From knuckle I'd wear wedding ring, eternity ring, engagement ring.

From the bottom of my finger towards the knuckle I wear my WR then ER. I do feel like it should be the other way round though, as the ER came first and the WR should go on top. But that's the way I was told to wear it by people!

From the knuckle where my finger joins my hand, I wear my wedding ring, and then my engagement ring. Although our tog was convinced it should be engagement ring then wedding ring as "you get the engagement ring first" and we have photos of our hands, with my rings this way around. As soon as the tog left, I swapped them back over.

Traditionally it should be WR on the bottom then ER so the wedding ring is 'closed to your heart' - pass the bucket!

My ER is shaped as is my WR. ER will also be shaped (if I drop enough hints to OH about it!) and will sit on top of ER - like the pic posted earlier.

MIne go eternity, wedding then engagement. It looks and feels best for me.

Wedding ring because it never comes off, then eternity ring because I hardly ever take that off. I dontr have an engagement ring but if I di that would be last because I would probably take it off more with the stone being raised

This is how my Mum wears hers as it looks best this way.

This!

I was thinking about this the other day and like others have said not sure if there is a right and wrong way!!!

i dont have an eternity one but my mum has always worn in that config WR, ETer, Engagement and it looks right, I also think this is the way of that generation (in their early 60s this is how its worn. but more these days people have them made to go around engagement. There is no right and wrong but wedding band is definitely 1st - closer to heart

My engagement ring sits on top of my wedding ring, if i had an eternity ring i would put it on top of that so tje engagement ring is sandwiched.

oooh, this is another post altogether!

I think I'll just keep them mu way round and swap them when I see my Mum to keep her happy. She's a superstitious old dear. Theres a gap if I wear them her way, it just doesnt sit right. Thanks for all your answers though ladies!

Im confused about this "from the knuckle up". Heres a picture;