Shoes, please help

How about having a higher pair just for the ceremony and photos and then a funky flat pair to change into afterwards? I'm sure there are hitchers who can flash you their low heeled shoes for inspiration!

What about getting some wedges, that way you've got the height without the crippling pain on the ball of your feet?

I've gone for wedges as I'm rubbish in heels but need some extra height as my OH & I have a similar height difference to you

Why does it matter if your OH is much taller than you on the day?

Hes always going to be, and if you don't wear heels, why do something different just because it's your wedding day. Photographers will make sure your pics etc will be in proportion, so don't worry about that.

I have the opposite situation...I'm 5'9", OH is 6'1" and my shoes have a nearly 5 inch heel. And I couldn't give a monkeys ?

Like said already have you tried wedges? Or shoes that have a slight platform at the front these are decieving as they look really high but dont feel as high?

If you have the same pain everytime you wear heels have you ever tried rolling your feet out? Sounds ridiculous I know! But I am a dance teacher so spend a lot of time on the balls of my feet, you have lots of little muscles in your feet that you can strain just like big muscle. You can stretch them out by rolling your foot onto something - tins, tennis/golf balls.

Anyway like Kirstabubble says I wouldn't worry too much about the height difference. Im 5'2 aswell and OH is 6ft he likes the fact im little and I wouldn't worry about looking silly as a photographer will make sure you don't!!