We found out last week that ffil has terminal cancer. We have been told he only has 2-3 months left. He is aware it's terminal but not how long he has, he is very ill and getting weaker every day. This has all come out of the blue, we still can't believe it. We get married in 4 months and can't imagine the day without him there.
We were going to send the invitations out but when we got the news decided to hold off. I'm not even sure yet if we will just postpone the wedding until later in the year. Fmil keeps asking oh to send the invitations out so that ffil has something to look forward to.
I don't know what to do. It doesn't seem right to send them out at this time and my worry is it might upset ffil when they receive it, which i really don't want to happen. As far as i'm aware he hasn't spoken about the wedding and he is that ill he probably hasn't even thought about it.
What would other hitchers do in this situation? Would you send the invitations out or not?
Sorry about the depressing post :-(