Sister problems...what to do!!

If you dont want her then then yes. but obvs be prepared for the back lash

You can stop her from coming if you don't want her there. The only other solution is to have a nominated family member to keep an eye on her drinking and the first sign of any lairyness book her a taxi home.

Bonking! ha i haven't hear that word for ages!!good word.

Kochanski - Answer to your question, my mum know's but always makes excuses for her behaviour. My relationship with her isn't a normal loving sister relationship after everything that's happened but she had so many problems I couldn't seem to disown her (dick head I know) I've kinda just put up with everything, I think it's worse as she has 3 kids with her partner of 10 years and I wasn't going to be the one to tell him and ruin another relationship. After last week I've got to the point of what more can I take!

She did me a favour though as I've met the loveliest man.

Ps- I have no proof of BONKING (LOL) but my friend caught them getting tongue acquainted. They were chasing each other for month's in drunken states.

You can uninvite her, but it may cause a bigger rift.

Could you invite her to the wedding ceremony only? No alcohol, no fuel to the fire.

If my sister had done that to me I would have disowned her.

This I'm afraid.

I have quite a few friends who would take no persuading to do this lol. Sometimes I just wish I could be a little nastier but I know certain family members think she's an angel but obviously they don't know the half of it. I'm hoping as she know's she has a lot of enemies there she will be on her best behaviour. I'm kinda waiting for her to *** up just one more time so I can tell her to do one.

Hehe snogging and bonking. oh crikey i'm so immature. proper giggling at my desk. NOT at you though Haylee81.

do you want her there if she was well behaved?

personally i wouldnt want her there at all.

I wouldn't mind if at was me lol. There's to long a list to put down every time she's been an muppet. Of course I'd love my sister to be there if she was normal and didn't turn into a whore after a few drinks and upset people, I can just already see her behaviour acting out in front of me now and I've got another 3 months to worry about it. I know her partner will be there and her kids but this doesn't seem to lodge in her brain after a few drinks, she really just doesn't care about anyone. Maybe I could send her to your wedding by accident lol

This with bonking bells on! You're a stronger person than me, I don't think I could have a relationship with my sister, let alone invite her to my wedding if she betrayed me like that.

I understand you not wanting to upset the apple cart with her partner, however maybe a quiet word to say "you can come to my wedding, HOWEVER if you get trollied and act like a trollop (again) then your partner and everyone else WILL find out how you betrayed me..."

oh thanks & i thought we were friends! haha. send her to mine...we'll all tell her to nob off! x

Nob off lmao

I completely see your point. I had a very large fall out with my so called 'sister' this time last year. I haven't spoken to her since. She is not welcome to my wedding, house, my family, nothing. Everyone who is coming to my wedding has had some sort of bad experience with/ because of her. It's lied, stolen, broken, sh1t stirred ... The list is endless. The final straw was telling my mum my best friend was selling her drugs -whilst my friend was heavily pregnant I might add. This caused a massive row with my mum and I ended up not having her as a BM because of this. I lost my best friend because of the lies she told. I ouldnt take it anymore and decided it was enough.

Its upset my mum but it's tough ***. My day. My way. Don't like it don't come!

You should stick to your guns on whatever YOU decide. Don't let people bully you into something you want to do. The less stress te better!

Sorry for the rant.

WSS

This is how i would deal with it too