So fed up I've had enough! * Major Rant Warning*

Oh Lizzy rant and swear away I certainly would. It's them that should be apologising, if they dont want to attend the wedding then stuff them!!!

As for the colour scheme thing, I would change it so long as nothing was bought, but thats just me.lol

BIG HUGS ?

Lxx

No need to apologise for bad language, im sure all of us would be the same lol

Anyways, its your day and you wanted that colour so dont change it. Plus if none of them are coming anyway then they wont see it!!! lol sorry.

Hopefully you will all sort it out before the weddings....

If someone could be as spiteful as to threaten that they weren't coming to your wedding then do you really want them there?

And as for the colour scheme, if it stayed the same yours will look better anyway!!! Up to you if you want to change it but I don't think you need to... x

Rant away honey you're allowed to!!! you'll feel better for getting it off your chest and stuff the lot of them for being so childish. great big hugs ?

Rant away - personally I wouldn't want them at my wedding, and I would stick what what I'd chosen, unless you would prefer another colour

Gggggggggrrrrrrrrrr families can be such hard work at times!!!!

i wouldn't change your colour scheme especially if you have bought anything in those colours but its your choice. it bugs me when people say they aren't going to go to a wedding unless this and that, fine don't come, i'm not sure whats happened etc but don't get held to ransom to do something you don't want to over a wedding invitation, their loss!

Tell them to go foooook themselves! hehehehehehehehehee.....

change your colour scheme if poss and dont tell them anything!!!!! No more discussions with members of the family.

With regards to the colour scheme, I'd do whatever it is that makes you happy! If you truly love your colour scheme then stick with it because yours won't be done in a tramp like fashion and will look a million times better. If it is really going to bother you though, then change it to something else you love!

With regards to the family, personally I would not want them there and there is absolutely no way I'd be apologising (or my OH) but we are both incredibly stubborn- which at times does not do us favours in the long run....

All I'd say is make sure you do what you and your OH want. If he isn't bothered (which would be understandable) about them being there, then invite other people and make it clear your not going to miss them. However... playing devils advocate, it is one of the most important and special days of your lives and you wouldnt want anything to ruin it. If it is going to bother your OH, or make him sad or somehow put a dampner on the day, it might be worth considering some sort of comprimise etc so they'll be there...

Just my opinion though, like I say- it's whatever makes you two happy- that is the most important thing!

Don't blame you for swearing, and really hope it all works out ok...x

Thanks ladies just needed to get it off my chest!

OH says not to change we decided first and we know that and it's all that matters! Calming down I agree! (Still angry at them tho) plus it would cost as we have already bought stuff in the colour!

We don't want them there anyway the only person OH is most bothered about is his dad but he said this morning he would never lose his dad and he should know that! (although how it's been the last couple of months you would not have thought it! ?)

Teehee you made me giggle lol so thanks for lightening my mood x

If they decide to turn up the only people that are being invited from OH side are dad and step mum(if she can get her head out of her arse), 2x bros, Grandparents and his real mum.

Thank you all for your advice and ignoring the naughty language! just wish all this rubbish would go away I'm fed up to the back teeth of it!

xxx

No need to apologise hun, we are all big girls and under your circumstances would probably be the same.

Have yourself a nice bath, a big cup of tea/coffee/hot chocolate and try forget about it for a while. x

Cull the family, stick with the colour scheme.

Come in a bit late here, but dont apologise, i think they have put you through enough now! Im with bluewater, cull the family! lol!