So, following on from my h2b stag post... he got in at 4am this morning...

Poor you, but you are not fat or ugly and however you feel H2B wants to marry you and be with you for the rest of his life! He hasn't left you and run off with one of the 'ladies' he met last night and he won't (even if they wanted him). He wants a companion, who can give him intellectual conversation and escort him places, not some tart with a boob job!

You knew where he was going and he has been honest with you about what happened there. I would just tell him you're glad he had a good time and don't discuss it again.

Yep, that's probably really good advice actually. I've just been tortuing myself all morning, it's prob best to try and forget it. Thanks.

Awwwww please don't feel negative about how you look, as JJ said your H2B wants to marry you and it's you he came home too.

Did you ask before he went not to have any private dances ?

I just don't get this whole stag=strip club idea I really don't.........

At least he has been honest with you and told you he probably thinks it's nothing important, men's brains don't work the same way as ours !

Try and put it behind you, don't let it taint the run up to your big day because you don't get this time back again ?

Look on the bright side, he told you about it so therefore has nothing to hide!

I agree with what everyone else have said.

Also you can bet your life that the boys paid for the dance (male bravado anyone?) and it would have been very rude to decline - Imagine your guy turning round to the girls saying "err, no thanks girls, you are probably very nice ladies..." (hahaha could you imagine if he had!!)

Why dont you wake him up with a bit of sexiness yourself to make you feel better - unless he smells of yukky hangover!

(you would get points for "being great about it")

xxx

Thanks girls, feeling a lot better today - I think I was just a bit shocked, 'cos last time he went he said that the private dances were just the girls dancing in front of you and they didn't go near you. These two were obv just particularly disgusting - but then once they started, there's not much he can do is there? He did say that he deliberately didn't pick a girl for a dance all night, which I thought was sweet.