I could do a happy dance but I'm in work.
Our wedding was getting out of hand with people doing the "you must invite so and so" and "but you must make sure you..." thing. It was just too much so we've cancelled it. Reception venue, caterers, bar, cars, DJ, band. All cancelled.
We are having the ceremony mid week and then taking our guests to a local restaurant for dinner. I'm still wearing the big frock but everything else will be small and personal. With added dinosaurs and pom-poms.
So relieved I just had to share.