Hi guys an girls, I'm due to get married in just under 5 weeks, I obviously have all the typical stresses and worries any bride to be has, but I have a massive bridesmaid problem the bridesmaid in question is 12 years old her mother is also one of my bridesmaids and my future hubby's sister. Mother and daughter have a very firey relationship, the 12 year old messaged me saying she doesn't want to be bridesmaid anymore (this is the 3rd time she has done this) also threatend that if she is on the same table as her mother she will kick off! I find it hard to believe that a 12yr old can affect my wedding plans so much, my table plan is done and wasn't cheap, in total I have spent £400 per bridesmaid and I have 4, so as u know being on a tight budget as most brides are I'm so frustrated, I can't keep kissing her butt to keep her on side, I've reached a point where I don't want to have her at the day at all, but I know I have to remember she is only 12 years old
what should I do? I'm so fed up with this