Some one tell me to get a grip PLEASE!

Get a GRIP! ?

but only coz you asked me to!! i think you're a mixture of excited/happy/emotional and a load of other emotions! Sit down have a cuppa and chill. You can go and buy an advent calander in a bit. and before you know it it'll be next saturday, his clothes will smeel like organe juice and butter and you'll be looking forward to your ceremony ?

Calm down.... H2B is almost home And chill about the advent calender, it's only chocolate. You can go out and buy one later. Think of it this way, the later you leave it, the more chocolate they get to eat in one day ;-)

Sit down with a cuppa tea and write a massive list of everything you need to do.. take you list and break it up in to smaller lists of importance then it shouldn't seem like so much to do.

Have little look at some piccies of the two of you and remember that you love him and it doesnt matter of you miss a few small things as you are going to commit yourself to each other and that is all that matters!

I was like that the evening before my wedding, you've got 30 days so plenty of time!

Why don't you sit down for 20 minutes (set a timer!) and list all the things you still need to do (which are spinning around your head), then write down the latest date each thing needs to be done.

Like that your mind will no longer be spinning and you can focus on putting the orange juice in the fridge!

Good luck with it all,

Alex

You're not a bad mother! Just take a deep breath and have a hot chocolate (perhaps laced with something stronger!) and do something non committment ceremony related! You just sound like you're a bit overwhelmed by everything - it will all be fine, your OH will be back with you really soon and I'm sure Puddy will understand about the advent calendar. Now, no more being hysterical or I won't be nice and I will give you a slap!

I second the list writing suggestion. Sometimes it's the only way I get through when I am under pressure at home and work.