sooo annoyed!!! bit of a rant!

Ignore her! Don't discuss your wedding with her. If she mentions anything just say we want to be independent and not take handouts. It's your wedding and it's prefect for you.

I would just ignore it.

She is obviously very spoilt and gets what she wanted.

My dad is paying for the whole of my wedding, but we would have been prepared to pay for it ourselves if we had to, its just something my father has been saving up for as i'm his only daughter. We did save a chunk of money to go towards it but he gave it us back to help our deposit for our first house,

I'd be proud that you are paying for it yourself and ignore her little comments

x

What a cow! I think she's jealous of your independance. Ignore her, avoid being left alone with her, and if she starts criticising tell her her opinion doesn't matter.

Oh and make sure you 'forget' to invite her to the wedding!

How did you react to that... I would have been pretty damn shocked if one of my friends said that!!! Especially about where you got your ring from... I would have said "Excuse me, I'm wearing a ring from that shop your b~tching about!"

Euph - what a bad bad friend!

I think at her wedding you should accidently trip over whilst holding a glass of red wine or something. Then go on how horribly embarrassing it must be for her.

Thanks for the replies guys.

im just soo annoyed!

I would never say anything that nasty to anyone so dont realy understand why she feels like she has to attack me like that.

but, like my dad always says, theres nowt funnier than folk!

kelly xx

It's a clear sign of jealousy... I wouldn't worry - be proud of what you have achieved.

If she is rude again, I would ask her how she came to chose her decorations - commenting that you are sure they are lovely, but not to your taste.. Sounds like she is resentful of that fact that you had a choice wheras she might have had to consider others given they were paying?

OMG what a total biatch!!!! Is she on here?!

I would probably try and laugh in her face and tell her she is being a snob and if she doesnt have anything nice to say, dont bother. Just smile sweetly and tell her that you are not really bothered what she has to say if all she is going to do is attack your plans. And say that if your plans are that below her, thats one less you have to pay for if the silly scrote bag doesnt want to come. Urgh, the silly moo.

Or you could just chin her ?

xx

OMG what a cow bag!!! but im getting the same too, not to that extent though!!!

sarajo - that made me giggle ?

What a horrible person. Best thing to do is ignore her and not discuss any of your plans with her. If she asks about them, just say you are keeping it all a surprise and as you are paying for it yourself you don't have to tell anyone else about the plans.

Thanks for your replies!

feeling a bit better today as just found out that since her dad is paying for their house, cars and the wedding, he's only given them £6000 for the wedding and i know that what she had planned would cost more like £20000!

feel like a cow for being happy about this but she cant treat people like that!

kelly xx

I would tell her to **** right off if she says anything nearly as rude as that again!!

What a total cow. Sorry she said that, how horrible, what an unhappy and spoilt person she must actually be without a clue about what weddings are REALLY about.

He he, that's good about her budget being slashed, I would have been happy too! x

If I were you I would be saying nothing about my wedding to her! She might just be fishing for ideas, and so what if she doesnt like the shop you got your rings in!! We had a chat in work today something about rings, and one of the girls was saying that her friends outside work and her were chatting the other day about how much should be spent on their ring! And they were all saying at least £3000!