I've removed this as I think it's being read the wrong way. I'm not saying he's a horrible person for doing this to me. I'm not suggesting that I'm never going to speak to him again or that we're in any way ungrateful for the money he's given us.
I think my upset with him was heightened by the fact that some dear friends & family were unable to make it in time.
In no way did I say because he's an albino he's any different from anyone else. The fact I know he wasn't meant to be in the official pictures is what makes him stand out to me. I wouldn't call him my friend if I had any issue with the way he looked.
Thanks for making me feel so welcome in what I thought was a honest but friendly environment. I'll be leaving now.