So we moved in with my mum at the end of March (against my gut instinct and against what I wanted but OH and mum talked me into it) to save a bit of money to go towards the wedding. Its been a nightmare, mum does not stop nagging me about OH, if its not one thing, its another. OH does not help out much unless I ask him to (and to be honest, I go by the motto if you want something done, do it yourself) and its left me running around like a mad woman whilst trying to revise for big exams and plan a wedding. I have asked OH to help out a bit more and he does then and there but is so forgetful that he will start something and get distracted and have to be reminded to finish it. He also doesn't notice when things need doing (lived at home until last november when he moved in with me and is used to being picked up after). I can cope with it when its just me and him but now we are at mums (although are paying quite a bit of rent so not just staying there) I'm having to keep her happy. She keeps making comments about him, things he hasn't done etc. He's not got a career yet (he's only 22) and both mum and me are quite career minded so she's constantly nagging me about it. He does work through an agency when he can get the work, and has far more money than either of us have with working 50-60hours a week when working everyday but thats just not good enough for her. I have asked her to speak to him about it rather than me but to be honest I think she's being out of order with it all. I'd understand if he was sat around doing nothing and earning nothing but he's not and he doesn't really know what he wants to do (applied to uni but didn't get in) and I don't see the point in pushing him into something he doesn't want to do just because its a 'career'.
Help?!
