On the phone last night my MIL said she and my SIL (whos also a BM, the pregnant one) won't be coming to my hen do because its too far away (40mins), she doesn't know the area very well and she's worried about her daughter being too tired since its on a friday evening and she's a teacher and it might be too stressful for her. I could tell she was anxious about the hen party before and while on the phone. Its a theatre and dinner setup. I think she's fretting on the unknown location and not knowing people. I told her it was alright and I understand if she's not up for it.
BUT
According from a text from my SIL only an hour before, she RSVP'd to my MOH that she and MIL are going. so colour me confused (i don't think my MIL has discussed this anxiety of going with my SIL) My loveable OH has said not to stress over it as its not my problem who goes or not and that he understands how stressful his family can get when 'trying to organise anything' (his words!)
My dad offered to pay my TOG a year ago. I told him the invoice would be due soon so he passed me his credit card details which gave me a red flag but i said nothing and went on to investigate. So I contacted my TOG and she doesn't take credit cards just like i suspected, makes sense since she self employed. So I've shot him an email telling him so ... nervously awaiting response (he's in the states)
I can't really afford this extra bill when we thought it was covered.
really starting to regret this whole affair.
