Don't you just hate those moments?
Invites? Simple administrative task. No problem.
Ceremony? Fairly straightforward. No problem.
Blessing service? Fairly straightforward. No problem.
Wedding breakfast? Plenty of planners to help you figure out who does what and in what order. No problem. Speeches aren't really my strong point but I'll muddle through.
Then it comes to the evening. That's where I begin to panic. I'm not really a "party person", don't really organise parties, rarely attend them, and the thought of having to keep 100+ people happy for up to 6 hours absolutely fills me with dread. We've got a barn dance instead of a disco, which they say their caller is great at encouraging people to participate, but what happens if nobody wants to? It's not as easy as a disco where guys can just get up and do the 'grandad shuffle' and the ladies spend all evening on the dancefloor inbetween dragging their man from the bar. Sure, there's a little break whilst the buffet comes out, and probably the cake cutting too, but what happens if people aren't really having a great time and/or start leaving early?
I'm just hating the thought of it all going horribly wrong on the day and not being the start to our marriage that we'd hoped for.
Am I being unreasonable? Am I panicking for nothing? I'm not a 'sociable' person, I don't enjoy silly games or making a fool of myself, if I play something I don't play it for fun, I play it to win. That's just the way I am, and that's not going to change.
OM's... did you get this feeling, and how did it turn up?
b2b/h2b's... do you have these worries too?