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Summer 2011 Brides - where are you up to?

Jay-Low, 2 September, 2010 at 17:31 Posted on Planning 0 19

I am in a bit of a wedding planning lull (sp) and thought if I got some inspiration from you lovely ladies it might get me going again! Although I think I am pretty organised.

I'm June 2011 and so far....

Booked venue (which includes catering, civil ceremony, DJ)

Ordered my dress and bridesmaid dresses

Booked photographer

Booked chair covers

Paid deposit for registrar

Had quote from 1 florist and have an appointment with another next week

Ordered my shoes from ASOS so waiting to see if they fit/are suitable when they get here

My next jobs are...

Organising giving notice

Sort out hotel rooms for guests

Decide about transport (don't know if I want 'proper' wedding transport - it seems too expensive IMO

Buy stuff to make invites and other stationary

Anybody else care to share? ?

19 replies

Latest activity by rachael d, 3 September, 2010 at 22:12
  • Arquard
    Beginner May 2011
    Arquard ·
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    Eek you're WAY more organised than me!

    We have:

    Given notice
    Booked the registrar
    Booked the venue and paid the deposit
    Reserved a block of rooms at the hotel
    Bought the rings
    Ordered and received our STDs
    Got the domain name for our website reserved
    Confirmed my friend to do our photography
    Got h2b's Aunt to agree to make our cake
    Got the seating plan nailed (pending RSVPs)

    Next jobs:

    Send out the STDs
    Get me to a dress shop
    Launch our 'wedsite'
    Get the reference number from the hotel so guests can book rooms we've reserved
    Start practising my origami skills to make my bouquet!
    Start collecting sci-fi merchandise to make our centrepieces

    That should take me up to next week!

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  • victoriamarie
    Beginner July 2011
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    So far:

    Bought dress, given notice & booked registrar, booked & paid deposit on venue, ordered save the date cards (not sent out yet) & booked harpist for ceremony.

    I was worried I was doing too much too soon but everyone seems way ahead of me!

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  • queencrunchy
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    Done:
    Given notice
    Booked venue and registrar
    Dress ordered
    Hair and make up artist
    Photographer and videographer
    Florist
    Transport
    First night accommodation booked
    String quartet and DJ booked
    Stationery designs started

    Next to do:
    Bridesmaids dresses
    Suits
    Honeymoon

    Not too bad I reckon. I'm July 2011 btw.

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  • babybirdandmouse
    Dedicated August 2020
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    Woah, I feel a bit behind now! I've done the following:

    • Booked registers office
    • Booked the 'cake-maker'!
    • Ordered my wedding ring
    • Ordered the colour swatches for my dress
    • Booked the photographer

    The next big thing on my list is the reception venue, which seems to be the hardest of all!

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  • N
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    We have done a fair bit and supplier wise have tended to concentrate on the ones where you can only have one of on the day.

    We have booked/ordered:

    venue

    gave notice

    my dress

    my veil

    photographer

    DJ

    string quartet

    sent out STD cards

    We are now looking at cakes and florists and hoping to get the bm dresses ordered by Oct.

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  • C
    Beginner July 2011
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    Im July 2011 and so far we have:

    Booked the venue

    Booked the registrar

    Made appointments to give notice, on Wednesday! EEEK

    Booked the DJ, friend of my OH

    Booked the photographer, friend of my OH

    Just booked the videpgrapher, a HIB on here who has come highly recommended.

    A friend of my dad is making our cake, just got to discuss design

    Picked the invitations, just need to order them.

    On the to-do list

    FIND A DRESS!! It;s the one thing that is really stressing me! Got yet another appointment on Saturday!

    Find bridesmaid dresses

    Pick wedding rings

    Plan honeymoon, we can't agree on anything at the moment.

    Plus H2B has gone into DIY mode and is painting everything!!

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  • spikeygoodness
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    So far I have decided I want to get married in summer next year and looked at a couple of venues. Seeing another couple at the weekend, and then hopefully making a decision and booking. So things ought to be going somewhere soon! Feeling like there is a LOT to do!

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  • Browny
    Beginner June 2011
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    I'm June 2011 and have done the following:

    - Booked Church

    - Booked venues

    - Booked caterer

    - Booked DJ

    - Ordered my dress!

    - Booked Honeymoon

    - Booked wedding night accomodation and reserved a block for the guests

    - OH sister doing cake

    - Dad/sister's Oh doing photos

    - OH Aunt doing flowers

    - Sent out STD's

    Next:

    - Ask friend to drive us to church/venue (he has a nice car) and be our toastmaster

    - Ask friend if she'll do the filming on the day

    - Speak to OH Aunt re: flowers see if she can do what we want, if not look for a florist

    - Quotes for wedding co-ordinator (for on the day)

    - Order bridesmaid dresses

    - Ask friend to do us an 'engagement shoot'

    - Nag OH to get on with designing our website!

    I feel like I have a million things to be doing but just need to get my arse into gear! Oh that and find some pennies from somewhere!

    xxx

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  • S
    Beginner August 2011
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    Wow I so wish I hadnt looked at this discussion!!! Im getting married August 2011 and so far-

    Booked venue

    Paid deposit

    Contacted registrar and made an appointment to confirm everything

    Sent out save the date cards

    Arranged for cake to be made

    Ive been engaged since October 2009 and have decided Im going to be laid back about it all as we still have a lot of saving to do before we can progress.

    Next priority steps-

    Meet with registrar and confirm

    Look for and find the perfect dress

    Order invites

    Start bridesmaid shopping (I have 6!)

    And they are my next steps oh and save save save ;-)

    xxx

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  • 1Lucie
    Beginner May 2011
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    I'm May 2011 and so far have

    booked church

    booked recepetion

    booked florist

    booked photographer

    booked dj

    booked wedding transport

    ordered my dress

    chosen bridesmaid dresses

    made my template invitation, now to make the rest!

    To do...

    Book make up/hair

    chose/book honeymoon

    Mens suits

    shoes/ accesories

    book chair covers

    sort hen/stag do

    make rest of invites/table plan/place cards

    Gettin there!!!

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  • fizzypop
    Beginner July 2011
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    We've got:

    Venue

    Food

    Registrar

    DJ

    My dress

    Honeymoon

    Photographer

    Hen do

    Florist and chair covers

    Invitations (yet to be made, got all the bits)

    Insurance

    A website

    Need to sort suits, BM/MOH dresses, car, drinks, my beauty stuff (tan, nails, hair, make up) and accessories (shoes, jewellery, garter, veil).

    Loads really! And I'm July 2011. Everyone is very organised!

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  • Little Madam
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    I'm August and we have:

    Booked the reception
    Booked the church
    Booked cars for me and OH
    Got the DJ
    Got wedding insurance
    Sorted the menu's
    Sent the STDs
    Got the dress, veil, shoes, tiara, jewelry and Garter (although I havent;t seen the last 2 yet - they are waiting at home to be opened)
    Ordered draft invitations from Vista to help us make up our minds
    Ordered the flowers for wedding party, church, reception, cake and centrepieces
    Booked the TOG
    Booked the cakemaker and chosen the cake
    Booked the chair covers
    Got the favours
    Organised photo booth type guest book
    Got the wedding website organised
    OHs ring is being made right now and mine will be made to match in a few weeks *as long as I like the design*
    Got my Old,New,Borrowed and Blue sorted

    The things I am stressing over are:

    Booking hotels for parents and guests
    Mens suits are still not booked and best man is in Afghan for next 6 months!!
    OHs outfit is being tailored to fit and he still doesnt have it
    Bridesmaid dresses - I need 5 and can't buy then until a few months before as one BM gives birth in Jan

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  • fizzypop
    Beginner July 2011
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    Wow, Kayl, you are so organised! The things you have left can be done nearer the time can't they (please say yes, I have all those things to sort too although my BM is around!) x

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  • Little Madam
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    I am hoping so fizzypop!

    I am organised as OH is away for 7 months after the wedding and so want to spend the months in the run up having quality time with each other and family.

    I am stressing over the hotels as we are in the countryside and the nearest and cheapest hotel only has 21 rooms - so want to get everyone booked quick before space runs out.

    The suits - I have heard some horror stories about people getting wrong sizes etc so wanted to order soon, but we have to leave 50% deposit and with some members of the party being away it's difficult... He should be back in April May but thats not long to the wedding.

    OHs has to rely on military tailors, who he says are notoriously slow. But he is working out so much these days we can't organise it yet as the suit I got him in July not doesn't fit!

    And bridesmaid... complete headache. 5 girls - 5 different sizes from an 8 to a 20! Grr.

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  • fizzypop
    Beginner July 2011
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    Oh I see, that makes perfect sense. I bet it's nice to have it done anyway!

    I know what you mean about bridesmaids, I have an 8 year old, a 10 year old and three big ones, all totally different sizes and shapes. It's going to be a headache! x

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  • Little Madam
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    It is nice to have somethings done - but I still have a huge list of things to be done (about 130 lines in excel!) - will feel better once a bit more is ticked off.

    It's a good job I love my BMs dearly - they are so difficult. I wanted all their hairs to be lightly curled like how I want mine but my MoH is african and has what she calls "Afro" hair - so she will need to have a weave put in etc which apparently is a DAYs job!!

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  • Vikster79
    Beginner July 2011
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    Im in a lull too and am thinking of just taking a weekend off and then starting again with a fresh mind.

    So far we have:

    Booked the ceremony and reception, which includes catering, DJ, chair covers, wedding suite
    Given notice and paid intent money
    Got wedding insurance
    Got my dress, shoes, tiara and jewelery
    Ordered thank you cards from Vista
    Bought vases, feathers, table mirrors, candles and table diamonds for centrepieces
    Booked the Photographer
    Chosen cake
    Bought stationary stuff, just need to make up nearer the time

    Need to:

    Chase florist for quote (why are they so lax!?!?)
    Think about my old, new, borrowed, blue
    Honeymoon nearer the time, money depending
    Make up invites

    urrrrrrrm stuck?! lol

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  • Tanya77
    Beginner August 2011
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    I got engaged last October and get married in August 2011.

    So far we have:
    Booked the venue and caterers

    Given notice and booked registrar

    Got wedding dress, shoes, tiara and veil

    Got bridesmaids dresses and shoes

    Booked photographer and band

    Sent out Save the Date magnets

    Liaised with suppliers over stationery and flowers

    Booked honeymoon

    Still got to:

    Confirm flowers and stationery

    Get flowergirl's dress (she's still got 11 months to grow, so will leave to last minute!)

    Sort out hair and make-up

    Sort out men's suits

    Sort out cake

    Buy rings

    ?????????

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  • agentblackcat
    Beginner July 2011
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    Hi Everyone - not been on for a few weeks as back at work, in a lull just now not really in wedding frame of mind.

    So far I have organised;

    Venues

    Photographer

    Chair covers

    Invites

    Dress

    bagpiper

    make up lady

    decorations

    flowers

    Still to do

    hair lady

    dj

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  • rachael d
    Beginner July 2011
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    Hi All

    Im 30 July 2011,

    So far we have organised

    Venue - including DJ

    Booked Registrar

    Given notice

    Insurance

    Chose where to have cake from

    Ordered Dress

    Booked hair/ makeup

    Organised hotel rooms

    Booked Casino,

    Booked photographer

    Sent out save the dates

    Made Mock up of invites

    Started collecting jars for sweetie tabel

    Bought some tealight holders for tables

    Still need to sort

    Bridesmaid dresses but 2 are very young so will leave it till next year

    Got an appointment with a florist

    Firm up cake order

    Organise mens suits

    Finalise decorations

    Sort Honeymoon

    Rach

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