Although I'm having place settings to say where I would like people to sit, I still want to have it quite informal, so was only going to put first names.
But I have a few people with the same first name so would I just put their surname initial, and I have 2 people with same name and first initial too, or will it be obvious as their partners name will be next to them?
Also with our grandparents, and parents do we put mother of the bride etc? Although this will be the first time most of our family meet so they won't know their names.
And one more, do we put our names or bride and groom?
I might be over thinking this, but don't want to look like an idiot or confuse the situation......