My Son is getting married in a few months. Its a reasonably bid wedding (about 140 for the meal). As the mother in law to be I have kept my opinions to myself, its their wedding after all. I have contributed financially, my decision.I have not even asked for any friends to get invitations and only asked for direct family to be invited, which I'm sure would have happened anyway. I am helping out with wedding invites and table decorations at my daughter in laws to be's request.
I can be a bit of a control freak so have deliberatley been very positive in every decision the bride has made. Now this one I am having trouble with.
The bride to be told me yesterday that she has decided not to mix the familys at the meal but "feels they would feel more comfortable sitting with people they know".
Mixing the guests at the meal I feel allows the two familys to get to know each other better and I really think that it gives the impression they don't get on.
Opinions please ️?️