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Beginner April 2019

Terrified of being ill on wedding day

Melyn, 24 February, 2019 at 11:34 Posted on Planning 0

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I have had the worst cold/flu for the past week, I have a 22 month old child who is also ill and we both feel awful. My partner and I are getting married on Easter Sunday, and my son's 2nd birthday is a few days before. We're organising a weekend of fun the weekend before his birthday but I really don't want people to come over my house on my son's birthday in fear of both me and my son getting ill on my wedding day. I get simple colds for a week at a time, and I feel horrendous and so does my son, he's been attached to me all week and I don't want this on my wedding day.. Is it bad for me to not allow family to visit in fear of getting ill? Thanks..

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Beginner January 2019
LuxuriousRedStationery801 · 25 February, 2019 at 21:11
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Does your son go to any type of childcare setting? Unfortunately he’s at that golden age where they pick up every bug and germ going. If he does go to a childcare setting then I don’t think you can say please don’t visit etc because of illness. I say this because he more than likely will have introduced the germs through nursery etc anyway.

I got married 5 weeks ago. I have a weekend immune system anyway due to a medical condition and I picked up a horrendous ear infection 19 days before the wedding. I genuinely got to the point I never thought I’d be well enough. However I did improve and to be honest sheer adrenaline gets you through the day!
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