Thank You Cards

We've only had one that declined and sent a cheque so we sent a thank you card straight away. I think another has bought something off our gift list but we dont find out who bought what until after the wedding so we'll send theirs afterwards.

I think its polite to send one straight away - if its a cheque you'll bank it straight away so why not say thank you?

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We didn't really have this problem but I think I would have sent a card straight away.

Yeah, I think I'd better send a note just now although haven't banked the cheque yet and that was 3 weeks ago (didn't want to rush to the bank and look greedy!!!!!)

I've actually had a few monetary gifts from evening declines and letters of apologies from all, but nothing from day declines, not even an explanation (not that I was expecting anything, I was actually shocked at getting anything from a decline), just thought it was strange. x

We said thank-you verbally on receipt of said gift but waited until after the wedding to make the cards, we wanted to use a photo from the day as a keepsake.

And we didn't bank or spend any of the cheques/money/vouchers until we sent the thank-you cards.