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Beginner August 2014

Thank you gift for dad, stupid or not?

Sarah5790, 9 June, 2014 at 16:50 Posted on Planning 0 14

Hey

Just wanting to know peoples opinions and if anyone could offer advice that would be great. Quick explanation before I say what it is just so you can see why I want to do this. Anyway growing up my dad didn't really have any family other than his mam and grandparents who all died when he was young. He has extended family but that's from marrying my mam other than me and my sisters his only biological family left is his sister who he doesn't really see. Anyway I was watching the D Day memorial with my dad and he explained about relatives in his family who died and how he would like to go to their grave out of respect. He also explained he has their medals (which I knew) but I let him tell me his story. So basically long story short my mam went through my dad's stuff years ago and lost the paper work and misplaced the medals the medals have been found but he now keeps them in a draw out of the way.

So my idea was to get the medals and get them cleaned and framed/mounted and give them to him as a gift on my wedding so he can display them properly I am also hoping to find the letter with the soldiers details on such as name date of birth and when and where he died and put the details in the frame also as a tribute to my relative and also for my dad as this is the only thing he has left of his family. I'm not sure how to go about getting the details but on the medals there is the solider's initials and surname along with a number and my dad mentioned something about a memorial wall with the same details on. But if I can't get the details I would still like up get the medals displayed for him.

I was just wondering if people think this is a good idea or not?

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Latest activity by MrsShep, 5 August, 2014 at 18:39
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    Beginner August 2014
    thewanderingwebster ·
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    I think that's a lovely idea! I'd also give him some tissues Smiley winking

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  • Lapland2015
    Beginner December 2015
    Lapland2015 ·
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    My oh was in the military and he said go to the common wealth war graves commission. He said as long as you have the name you should be able to get the info for your dad. He said their service numbers should also be on the bottom of the medals :-)

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    Beginner July 2014
    Shely ·
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    What a really lovely meaningful idea :-)

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    Beginner August 2014
    Sarah5790 ·
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    Thank you so much could you please let your partner know I say thank you and I really appreciate it. I noticed numbers on the bottom on the medals so that must be what they are x

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    Beginner August 2014
    Sarah5790 ·
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    Thank you for your replies ladies, it's nice to know other people think it is a good idea x

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    Beginner November 2014
    Hisgirl ·
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    I think it's a beautiful idea. My Dad's ex army, as was my Grandad, and he would love the idea.

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  • BAMS
    Beginner November 2014
    BAMS ·
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    Sounds like a brilliant idea to me - really personal and meaningful.

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    Beginner June 2012
    miss h to mrs h ·
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    What a lovely and thoughtful gift, what a lovely daughter you are Smiley smile

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    suziebabesuk ·
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    I think that sounds like a beautiful idea. ?

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    Beginner July 2016
    HeavyMetalMaiden ·
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    Awesome idea! Do it!

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  • Lapland2015
    Beginner December 2015
    Lapland2015 ·
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    Your welcome. My dad is applying for my grandads military records atm so I know how sentimental things like this are :-)

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    Beginner November 2015
    MissJag ·
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    What a really lovely idea.

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  • Arpee
    Beginner August 2016
    Arpee ·
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    This is such a lovely idea, you're very thoughtful ?

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  • emabee
    Beginner August 2014
    emabee ·
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    That is such a wonderful gift! For our wedding gift to H2B's parents we are taking them to visit the Somme battlefields where both their Grandad's died.

    Look on the War Graves Commission website where you can find details of all soldiers I think x

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  • MrsShep
    Beginner September 2014
    MrsShep ·
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    Aww, that's such a lovely idea :-)

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