So me and OH arent technically engaged, but we want to get married. I spoke to him today about going to see Chilston Park on Sunday and he was happy to, and said it sounds lovely etc. etc.
I asked him if we loved it, could we look at dates and he said he doesnt want to book anything until we have saved up all of the money we need, and then we can book things.
Just left me feeling a bit like a damp squib as I was looking forward to having a date.
I asked if we could at least book the venue, and he said no he doesnt want to.
Probably now means we wont be getting married for at least 3 years, maybe more if the venue we love gets booked up.
sorry, no need to reply, just feel a bit deflated