There's no hope for me....

I cry at everything and I'm pretty sure I'll cry on the day. My OH is convinced he will cry too. I'm not bothered to be honest - I think it just shows that we care. I will have my bridemaids on standby with mascara and tissues though!

Haha I was thinking about this last night! I nearly cried at a wedding show so feel like I may cry when I see my H2B which I really don't want to as I get the puffiest red face EVER when I cry!!! Hopefully I won't really care either way!!!

Do you think your H2B will cry??

i know i will cry but....i know H2B will cry like a baby....my MOH is gonna be on hand with a teaspoon which if he gets too emotional she is gonna hand it to him...he will know what she means and he will burst out laughing....

H2B favourite saying is have a teaspoon of cement and harden up!

Haha. I wouldn't have thought my OH would cry but he says I've made him into a big pansie!! He does occsaionally get emotional now so you never know i guess!!

OMG I am so going to cry all day!!!

I have cried while making invitations, cried while looking at flowers

Cried looking at my reception venue

Cried looking at dresses

Cried for absoluetly no reason at all I don't know whats wrong with me!!!

I'm hoping I can hold myself together on the actual day but I doubt it! I am not normally one to cry but I never ever thought I would meet someone I love enough to marry so this really means a lot to me.

Nearly crying now.... I'm screwed! Where's the tissues?! [:'(]

x

Almost. First sight of my beautiful wife at the front of the ceremony room was almost too much.

Her father had to fight back the tears too just before the ceremony - which can be seen in our video.

We managed to keep ourselves together though throughout the ceremony and the rest of the day - although it was difficult as it was such a wonderful day all round.

People expect the ladies to cry but it's not something us men are really meant to do.

I'm not usually a crier. I got a bit misty on our wedding day, though more during the speeches than the actual services. No weeping though. OH was actually almost offended that his speech didn't make me cry!

I didn't help matters by having a complete crying fit on the day of my friend's wedding last weekend - but that was because one dress didn't fit, we ripped another, were going to be late and I was panicking.

I think if my mum starts (which she normally does at weddings) that will set me off

I always well up at DTTB but I didn't cry at my own wedding. I think in many ways it is more emotional to watch someone's wedding than to be the one getting married. I spent the whole day with a grin on my face.

I nearly cried on my way to the reg office when my mum's neighbours came out to say goodbye, but not at any other point really. I think I made sure I was grinning and laughing as it is a better alternative than crying! I would have hated to have cried, I don't do public crying.

I think if I cry it may be relief at pulling off the organising of the wedding after 18 months of planning. I cried at my sons christening for the same reason, total stress and the build up made me sob, everyone thought I was nuts and that my ex had upset me.

OH did say he will mention my son in his speech and that may set me off.

I didn't cry at all - I was just so smiley and laughey (if that's a word!).

My H did get upset when he first saw me in the ceremony room - there was a little bottom lip wobble and he had to dab his eyes with his hanky. Totally didn't expect that - the only other time I've ever seen him cry was when our dog died last year.

I'm quite surprised my mum didn't cry - she normally does and sets me off! Maybe she was just so thrilled to be rid of us?

Oh i KNOW i will cry and i think h2b will as well and i really dont care just shows we have feelings and that just dont want the whole church blubbering in unison lol ?

I cried loads running up to our wedding but on the day i hardly cried once. I cried when i saw my flowers and i nearly cried when i saw my dad, but when i got down the end of the aisle, although i was really nervous and shaking, I didnt cry once. I nearly welled up when she said 'and now repeat after me' but i just started laughing and said 'I cant!!' which everyone fund hilarious...didnt cry tho. thought I would blub!! I cry at everyone elses weddings!!!!

Hey twin! My hubby welled up too! and he had to compose himself when he did his speech but thats cos he was talking about his kids xx

Nope. I was too busy being happy.

H cried when he saw me though.

I was a wreck leading up my wedding and cried at anything wedding related but didnt cry on the day.

I'm definitely going to cry...really worried! I cry at all wedding related stuff ever.

I welled up at my best friend's wedding when they walked into the ceremony room and during their vows. I had to do the first reading, and I was all composed until the end. I had looked at them periodically during the reading and all I could see them laughing and smiling at me, so I nearly cracked. I was glad the reading did not go on for another verse, otherwise I would have been a blubbing wreck.

I am amazed at myself how emotional I get anything wedding related. DDTB, listening to music samples, during our dance lessons, reading about the ceremony, choosing the music...I get all emotional. I just hope that on the day I am done with all my crying and I will just be my Gingercat grinning self (I don't smile, I just have this Colgate grin - the photographer will be pleased....). Even though I will not see my h2b outfit (him and his BH are getting their suits made), I might just cry when I see him all suited and booted standing at the altar, waiting for me....I hope not...

If my h2b is going to cry - not sure....he might get a bit misty eyed....

My mum will cry, my sister will cry, my MoH will cry, her husband will cry...I just have to keep it together for them! lol

I'm usually a very emotional person, but lately I haven't welled up at the wedding programmes. The only thing that has made me emotional has been seeing a few friends' wedding photos.

However, this week's DTTB did make me well up... Back to normal nursieland...

I cry at anything weddingy atm, I know I will cry when I see my dad, because I know he will cry! I have told H2B if he doesn't cry I will poke him in the eye! LOL (obviously I am joking). My mum will cry so that will set me off, I have made an agreement with BM and MOH not to make eye contact with me untill after the ceremony because I know as soon as I catch someones eye, I will blub.

I didn't cry at our wedding - I keep meaning to post the video but I am laughing and smiling the whole time, however poor Husband was sobbing just the teeniest bit.

I really didn't want to cry and was so emotional the whole time before - we'd both cry at my entrance music, and watching DTTB... ? but on the day itself I was so happy all I could do was smile, massive real stupid smiles!

I cry at the drop of a hat (PMT, films, reading some of the wedding readings that strike a chord etc etc). It's something I'm a little bit worried about for the day TBH as I'm a really, really ugly crier. I don't just shed a few dainty tears my face goes all red and puffy and my nose runs and I look an absolute wreck!!

LoL Yes I think I will - although I thought I would have cried when OH proposed - but he took me by surprise so much I was in shock more than anything. I Think that if OH turns around when I'm walking down the aisle we will both cry!! If he cry's there is no hope for me :o) I hope I don't get too emotional as I sometimes find it hard to compose myself again so service could take FOREVER. Lol

I didn't at my first wedding. I think I was in control-freak mode and trying to stage manage everything (to the extent that I pointed out to the registrar where she "went wrong" - not putting our personal vows in the right place. I was also very conscious of people looking at me.

This time I'm not so sure. We're eloping because I don't want all that stuff in front of people again, so it's very intimate, and very us. Plus this time I will be having a full C of E service which I couldn't have last time (ex H was previously married). It devastated me that I couldn't marry in church before, and the whole fact that this time I am not only marrying the right person, but also with the ceremony I ALWAYS wanted, may get to me a bit. I was welling up when our wedding co-ordinator confirmed that since it was an Anglican church marrying us, the service would be full C of E!

H2b may blub - I'd rather he didn't since I don't really do crying men (yeah yeah I know...), but that's sthg I can't dictate really!

I cry at everything even silly things on tv programmes but I didn't cry at all at our wedding. I just couldn't stop smiling the whole day - not even a tiny welling of the eyes! My OH got a bit teary as I walked down the aisle and the mums and grans did have a few tears at various points during the day.

Put it this way, this just made me cry!