I'm so excited, I think I've found the dress - went with my BMs on Sat and they loved it!
It's nothing like I thought I wanted - I originally wanted a figure hugging dress that had pleats on front to cover any belly fat, but tried it on and really liked it.
I don't know how to flash tho - if anyone let's me know how to do it will put it on!
Here's link to model wearing it
https://www.essensedesigns.com/wedding-dresses/
Going to order it tomorrow