My two BM's are sisters, I'm inviting their mum and dad and also younger sister and her OH to the whole day. Mainly because I think of their family as second family and also because neither of them have been BM's before and I thought their parents might like to be there for them. I have a slight issue though...
I really don't want to invite one of my BM's OH. There are a few reasons for this...too long a story to go in to but I shall share some examples.
he can't handle his drink and gets drunk v v quickly. Which usually results in the following, childish name calling or horrid use of swear words (the c word), getting girls in head locks and ruining their hair, rubbing your face with his hand "playfully" (so I'm told - it bloody hurts!), tips your glass when your drinking from it, starts arguments about politics if which he has no real info on.... Honestly this list could go on. Another major thing that upsets me at times is that he likes to pick on people, luckily I'm thick skinned but I don't take kindly hearing him call my H2b a fat ***.
i keep thinking she will be upset if I don't invite him, as all her family are going and they have been together for years but my heart sinks when I think of him being there. I just don't know how to tell her..or if I even should? I don't want to lose my friend over it.