OH came home tonight and told me had a big fight with MIL2B as she is unhappy about what we have planned for the wedding. Its all the little things such as having the bridesmaids walk up the aisle before me and the fact i have picked my cousin and my best friend as my bridesmaids not anyone from her family and also that my brother will be playing his guitar as i walk down the aisle. Also we are not having a top table but a sweetheart table and the big things is that OH has picked his best friend to be his best man and not his brother and some of the cousins on OH side will not be invited as OH does not get on with them.
Is it so bad that we don't want to be very traditional and we don't want to pay for people who we do not want there?
Who has everyone picked to be their best man?
TIA