Hey everyone
Sorry this is abit of a rant I just don't know what to do now.
My partner and I had been toying with the idea of going to florida and doing the theme parks together, when one night we were chatting and the idea of getting married while we were out there on a beach, just the two of us came up. We got engaged Feb 2012. So we got some quotes and checked when best to go and we chose January would be best so it wasnt too hot. I asked my parents if they minded if we went away and got married they were fine then we asked his parents... and this is where it all fell apart.
His mum is really upset we would leave them out of it. We offered to have a party here afterwards but she wasnt happy with that either. She wants to see her son get married, which I do understand. So we said we would look at what we can find here in the UK.
That was 2 weeks ago and I cant find anything. my partner is stressing out as he didnt want a big thing, no formality. He doesnt want to be the centre of attention and hates what it is turning out to be. I feel like I can't have what I want all because other people feel so strongly on what we should have. I have got some quotes off some lovely places but now it is turning out that we can't afford to do a uk ceremony AND go to florida. Florida was what started the whole idea so the last thing I want to do is drop that.
I am so stressed out, I don't know what to do, what I should do or shouldn't. I don't care about a big party I just want to marry the love of my life in a romantic setting we have both been talking about for ages.