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Beginner August 2014

Ugly crying - Advice OMs

ATB, 9 June, 2014 at 15:25

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Sorry this is WPing but I need some Otter input! I was in church yesterday and was on the verge of tears the whole time. That's me just going to my church, on a normal sunday. I'm worried I'm going to be a total wreck and not be able to make it down the aisle at the wedding. I'm a very ugly crier -...

Sorry this is WPing but I need some Otter input!

I was in church yesterday and was on the verge of tears the whole time. That's me just going to my church, on a normal sunday. I'm worried I'm going to be a total wreck and not be able to make it down the aisle at the wedding. I'm a very ugly crier - never just a single tear, it's all or nothing full on howling, shaking and struggling to breathe. I started to feel it coming on yesterday.

Help - what can I do to compose myself? Does anyone have similar issues to me and were they fine on the day?! My friend sobbed coming down the aisle and to be honest it didn't look good.

My brother, who is giving me away, is pretty much as bad as me. It doesn't bode well..

My friend's dad said it's best to cry lots in the run up and 'get it all out' so there's nothing left ?

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  • MischiefMumma
    Beginner August 2014
    MischiefMumma ·
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    I'm really worried about this. I cry at EVERYTHING. Ihave cried at eveyr single wedding I have attended. I cry at those RSPCA adverts, not just a little tear about the poor dogs and cats but a proper sobby, snotty mess, "Andy we need to go and rescue all the dogs" wailing crying.

    I cried the other day at my hen weekend because it was all so beautiful.

    I cried because they got me a pin up Paul Hollywood.

    I cried when I saw a dog on the side of the road with no owner. Later saw the owner walking up the road with said dog and cried again because theyd been re-united.

    Cried when I accidentally played my song to walk down the aisle to, in the car.

    Im not so much as ugly crier, but its more of an ugly face-melting look. It all screws up and I get those disgusting stringy bits by the side of my mouth ?

    Yikes.

    xx

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  • LittleSnowflake
    Beginner January 2016
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    I sob after I've shouted at my dog, I feel guilty too!

    I think I'm more bothered about my pride, I hate crying in front of anyone apart from my OH he knows what a wet lettuce I can be haha!

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  • D
    Beginner April 2014
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    I am the biggeset, wussiest, ugly crier ever...turns out not a tear on the wedding day (ok maybe a few when I was drunk and had a dance with my dad - HAPPY TEARS!). Anyhoo, I was so worried about hyperventilating in tears and our venue Co Ordinator basically said in a couple there is always one that cries all the time, and one who doesn't - on the wedding day you'll switch!! So true!

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  • *MM3*
    Beginner June 2014
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    Ooh can reply to this as an OM! Despite all my fears i didn't cry once...i'm such an emotional wreck as mentioned before, cry at everything and not once on the day did i shed a tear Smiley smile

    You'll be fine ATB!!

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  • ATB
    Beginner August 2014
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    Thanks everyone!!! I'm currently in a 'fear' stage and worrying about everying, so I'm not cryng so much. I expect by next week I'll have shifted again!

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  • bamboo
    Beginner September 2014
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    I'm really worried about this too since my eyes and nose get red and swollen. Hope I don't ugly cry on my wedding!

    @Kjay: that's a really nice photo! You look so pretty!

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