Okay so here's the problem...
We have hired to very good (very expensive) photographers for our wedding. Me and my OH are very private people and have decided that we do not want any photos taken during the day and uploaded onto social media for various reasons.
The 1st reason is that a wedding is a very private and personal occasion and we don't want people hiding behind their phones/cameras acting like paparazzi when they should be with us celebrating our big day. I have been to so many weddings and you look around and see everyone in their phones/cameras and uploading them for the world to see before the bride and groom even have the professional photos.
Secondly, if you wernt invited to the wedding/reception, there's a pretty good reason why. We either don't know you or we don't want you there (harsh but true). We both have ex partners and people we dislike, why should they be let in on our special day? My OH's sister in law is disgustingly close with his ex who he has a child with. It's guaranteed photos will be sent across to her all day of or wedding.
Finally, professional photos look awful when your guests are hiding behind devices. The guests flash going off and ruining professional photos. The photos of everyone in the church looking up at the bride and groom and you see iPhones, iPads, cameras etc.
I know it will never be like the old days when there was no social media, but I feel like no one respects our tradional views. As I said we are very private people and don't need to justify our existence by uploading thousands of photos/ tweets/ status'. I just feel like our wishes will fall on deaf ears and people will do what they want anyway. Can anyone help? Has anyone else been in this situation?
Ps. I know I have probably made myself sound like a crazy lady, but I honestly have run out of ideas. If we could run off and get married in private I would do it in a heartbeat, but I'm only going to do this once and there are people who deserve to be there celebrating with us xx
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