A breakthrough happened last night.
As I was cooking dinner, as always Mr WT decides to be loving and cuddly (not the best timing seeing as the steaks are under the grill, the sauce needs stirring etc) Anyway, He grabs me, gives me a kiss and a cuddle and asks me 'do you love me?' (this is a little ritual we have every day) 'Yes, of course I do' I reply... 'Do you love me?'...'Yes. I do' he says. The converstion then went like this:
Me- If you loved me youd go to the opticians and get your eyes tested
Him - Oh come on, dont still nag me about that
Me - You obvioulsy dont love me then as Im only asking you to get an eye test cos I care about you
Him - emotional blackmail?
Me - yep, seems its the only thing I have left, So how much do you love me again?
Him - Lots, ohhh ok, ok I'll go and get my eyes tested.
Me - good, I'll book us both in next week then
RESULT!