I booked my wedding yesterday and called up my parents to let them know, I was so happy, beyond cloud 9.
And now they're telling me they can't afford to pay for anything... Which I guess is understandable as they've helped me out a lot with my two babies.. And although very upset by that I could kind of live with it as my oh's mum has said she would fork out for the wedding...
But today, I get a phone call from my mum, and she makes up several excuses as to WHY they can't pay...
Firstly, I sprung it on them (yes that is true, it's 8 months away), 2nd, even though they both work full time, they don't have money (mainly because my mum spunks it all on bingo and stupid gadgets that she never uses!) 3rd, it's my brother's 18th.. he doesn't want a party or anything but my mum is adamant that he will have a party.. 4th. My parents both want a new car (not need... want) and 5th. (This hurt me the most I think) They want to go on holiday next year.. She turned around and said to me, we've been wanting to go for a few years but every time there's been a problem (namely me) firstly it was my trip to Lourdes, then university and house deposit, then my first child and now my second.
She made me feel as though I was this HUGE burden on her and now it's really getting me down. I just feel like a problem to them now... I've talked to my partner and we've both agreed that as they aren't paying they don't get a say in anything that happens, if they want a say they can contribute. But the way this is all going I don't think they're even going to come or they'll be late (courtesy of my mum) She has to make everything about herself and if she can't, then she'll make my life hell.. It's taking a lot not to tell her to just eff off and not bother coming tbh...
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