If someone you knew used the terms coloured or the dark person to refer to black people, would you remind them that it is more acceptable to say 'black' these days, or say nothing?
The person saying 'coloured' thinks they are being polite. The person saying dark thinks they are being polite in not saying coloured. These poeple are both older (over 60).
And, do you think we are more tolerant of race in this country than the US? I seem to come across an insidious form of racism that isn't 'open', so people wouldn't know about it, generally, but it is there. More and undercurrent of intolerance than openly racist.
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