Sorry I haven't been around as much as what I used to, hopefully this is me sorta back on track again.
So much has been going on but so little at the same time if that makes sense. I know I don't need to explain myself but you have all been really great when it comes to weddingy things I feel I owe it, instead of me just coming on here posting questions all the time and "taking advantage" of your good nature ?.
1st dilema....We are having problems with the mortgage...h2b decided that he didn't want to pay the mortgage without telling me so we have been given notice of eviction, well at least that's what we thought but apparently when h2b was in Scotalnd last week they phoned him saying that they didn't know whether or not to take the house or let us keep it (I'm confused about it all!).
I don't help with the mortgage as I am paying for our wedding and even if I could it wouldn't help as I couldn't even afford half of it without leaving myself skint each month...h2b could afford it and still have a good bit left over but he has fallen behind (by quite a few £££'s) and we can't afford to catch up, this all happened when he was out of work for 6 months due to an accident involving a table saw and 8 of his fingers (thankfully he didn't loose any!), so we have to look for somewhere but h2b's pride gets in the way and he is being really fussy about which area...to be honest I would move to a semi- respectable place to at least secure a roof over our heads.
2nd dilema (semi sorted)....h2b's divorce is finally underway, we got his papers into the court about 2 weeks ago so just waiting on them getting back to us to collect them again and serve them on his ex.
3rd dilema...h2b has a possibility of being made bankrupt because of a shop we sold in 2007...apparently rates are outstanding and the rate office don't know if we are meant to pay or the new owners...we do know that they have some dates not concerning us as they have 2008 and 2009, they can't tell us what period is due and I think the shop was sold before Oct 2007 as I wasn't working there at that time.
My head is spinning!, I try to do weddingy things to clear my mind a bit and sometimes it helps and others I just can't focus on anything but we are getting there...I hope!
So that's it in a "nutshell", not that you can really help me sort this stuff out ? but I promise to try and be here to add my 2 penny's every so often ?