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VERY selfish moan

Allgold78, 5 October, 2010 at 20:44 Posted on Planning 0 10

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I was going to go to the national wedding show back in March but the kids played me up and my sister let me down and I didn't go. I was gutted and as soon as the tickets came out for the october dates I was in there and bought a couple. It was supposed to be me and my best friend (and MOH) going this friday. Now her newborn baby is poorly and needs to be in hospital. Now I have to go on Friday on my own. My sister can't go cos she's working, my other BM can't go cos she lives hundreds of miles away, and I have no-one else that I'd really want to go with me.

Now OF COURSE my friend has her priorities right and I wouldn't have her come with me when her baby is sick but I'm really not gonna enjoy it on my own ☹️

Sorry, selfish moan over!

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Latest activity by Allgold78, 5 October, 2010 at 21:57

Beginner March 2011
Mrs Bass · 5 October, 2010 at 20:48
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I bet there is a hitcher who might buy a ticket off you?!
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Beginner May 2011
fluffymalone · 5 October, 2010 at 20:51
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Aaaw no way!!

Its awful that your friends baby is poorly chick, but i bet there plenty of hitchers going why dont you arrange a meet up??

I would offer to come as Id love to be there but at work til two!! Bugger!?
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Beginner October 2011
Allgold78 · 5 October, 2010 at 20:51
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I'm sure there is hun. It's really not the money. I've been looking forward to this for such a long time and was really looking forward to a girly day out, looking at wedding things and now it's not gonna happen if I have to go on my own.
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Beginner October 2011
Allgold78 · 5 October, 2010 at 20:53
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Yeah that's an idea.

God I sound like such a selfish b**ch and that's really not me. And I know she wouldn't let me down on purpose.
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Beginner November 2011
JST · 5 October, 2010 at 20:59
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Yes you do sound a bit selfish. But I would probably feel the same way.

I hope the baby's hospital visit goes OK and the poor little thing gets well very soon.
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Beginner May 2011
fluffymalone · 5 October, 2010 at 21:00
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You dont sound like a selfish b**ch chick!!

It would be no fun going on your own!!
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Beginner October 2011
Allgold78 · 5 October, 2010 at 21:02
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Yeah I really hope he gets well soon too. It's horrid seeing such a tiny baby in pain, and seeing my best friend so upset when there's nothing I can do to help.

Right, I'll sort something out. Be interested to know who is going Friday though.
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Beginner November 2011
JST · 5 October, 2010 at 21:05
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As someone who has been there and done that (my lovely, gorgeous, delicious son was hospitalised at 5 days and had to have an emergency operation on his bowel) the absolute best thing you can do is just be there for her. Although I'm positive you are already doing anything you can.

Big kisses being sent to baby.
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Beginner May 2011
Arquard · 5 October, 2010 at 21:11
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Don't beat yourself up chick. If you can't have a selfish moan here, where can you?!

I think meeting up with a hitcher would be a great idea though. Certainly plenty of fun wedding girliness to be had then!

Sending best wishes to your friend and her baby xxxx
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woo-woo · 5 October, 2010 at 21:13
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Could your H2B go with you? Maybe he could throw a sicky?

I would feel the same especially as you've been waiting so long x
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Beginner October 2011
Allgold78 · 5 October, 2010 at 21:57
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No, he's got to stay home to pick the kids up etc. Not sure he would enjoy it anyway, lol
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