Hello guys, how are we all on this fine day?
OH found out yesterday that his sister and brother in law have got themselves jobs in Australia! They are applying for a visa each and will then be moving to OZ with their 2 sons. The visas should come through at the start of September, so seems that the family will not be attending our wedding. OH is really upset, and actually quite angry at his sister for not explaining to the new employer that they cant go until after the wedding.
Personally, I think that it is an amazing opportunity, and can see that the employer already has to wait 3 months for the visa so might not be prepared to wait another few weeks for them so that they can be at our wedding. I suppose I dont have the strong family connection to them that he has, but I think that even if it was my sis I would be extremely excited for them, and understand that coming back for our wedding might be a bit awkward and expensive.
We are off to his mums for a BBQ today, and the whole family will be there so I hope OH doesnt put the guilt trip on his sister. I would hate to think that they would turn down or ruin their chances of something like this just to spend a day with us (granted, its a fairly special day!).
Anyway, I am being proactive and thought I would ask for recommendations for videographers. We really didnt want one but now I am thinking of one for at least the ceremony and speeches so that we can send a DVD to his sister if they do have to miss the day. So any recommendations in the W Mids area please?
TA
SID